There are 4 kids in my family, I'm the 3rd, I have two sisters they are in 1st and 4th positions and my brother is the 2nd.
We all went to boarding school, first I went with my older sister in Northern Ireland, then I went with my younger sister in England. Coming home for holidays my sisters dominated conversations with my parents and I learnt to keep quite, I have never really talked to anyone in my family about my feelings or problems.
I'm divorced, I didn't tell my family anything until we were separated. The other day I had a problem with my older sister. She Is te type of person who is always competing with you, if my daughter has a problem, her daughter has had it worse, when I told her I was getting divorced she started talking about how if her husband divorced her how she would suffer?? I can't say anything she has to trump it!
On Friday she must have been texting the little sister about me, and copied something I had texted her to the little one, but sent it to me by mistake. It's not the first time she's done this, it just was really the last straw I'd had enough, so I told the little one, who wrote back to me telling me off!! She's always bitching about the older one to me, but when I say something she tells me off!! Now I don't know what to do. I live near the older one but hardly ever see her. It really won't make much difference to my life if I never see her again. The little one lives near my parents, when we go to see them we have to wait at their house until we are invite round to hers, or she comes to see us, often we can be there for a couple of days before we see her, she literally lives 3 mins drive away, but her life and kids are the only thing that's important to her, she comes round to mum and dads and talks about herself and her kids, she doesn't show any interest in me or my family, we only go to see them once or twice a year so it's not as if she sees us often. I'm sometimes embarrassed, my kids are adults now and think she's really rude. What should I do??