Two years ago we had horrendous anxiety issues with our 9 year old daughter. Can't pin anything down to triggering it off but she wouldn't leave the house and developed ketosis as she wouldn't eat. She had a soft referral to CHAMS but it was 5 month wait and by then her issues has gone. They now seem to be coming back; she's making herself sick for swimming (nothing's changed with her class) and very nervous and it's a challange getting her out. I am losing my temper so need help and advice. I'm at the end of my tether. She's not being bullied either.