Hi, I have Audhd and perimenopause. My company has been taken over and instead of being about how well we achieve it’s much more “go we come across”. Something has changed I could pass for neurotypical so much easier before….now some things have changed there isn’t enough yin in my life to balance the yang…I don’t have much softness in my life (love affection etc) it’s just feels like stress and pressure and getting messy from my teens and work that I’m not good enough. Whereas they used to be sources of my self esteem. I just want to be left alone and not be forced to change and have it so rubbed in my face that people think I come across as this or that..love and let live! I need to work here though as I’m a single parent and I won’t be able to match the money elsewhere. I just feel like I’m peak ND and I want the world to fuck off and stop commenting on me.