Hi so we are both ND although undiagnosed. This doesn't affect our lives much. Our son is diagnosed.
On husbands side is a lot of bibpolar & ND.
Whenever my husband does something wrong or we have a small quarrel he escalates quickly into hyper defensive mode.
We are hosting for Christmas and there's a lot of painting and clearing out happening. I am doing most of the work. I organise all the house repairs like plumber's electricians etc. the house is in disarray atm.
on Friday we were getting a new boiler fitted. Husband moved a heavy box in the dining area to provide access to something. Didn't check what was in the box and placed it on its side. We were trying to remove grout from a wall upstairs at the time which is a horrible job. He wfh and was quiet that morning until the afternoon.
I went down to the dining area and there was paint all over the floor. There was over 7 litres spilled from two different paint cans. I did not put the lids back on tight as the painting was ongoing. I initially assumed it was the plumber and asked him about it, he said my husband moved it. I told husband that there was paint all over the floor and he shouted at me that he was sorry alright etc. then told me to F off. Twice. I ignored him until this morning. He is going around angry at me. I believe he has rejection sensitivity disorder.
WWYD.