Hello,
Long story but I need some advice on resubmitting a EHCP request for needs assessment for the second time please, it’s just been refused again - or at the very least getting some provisions at school. I don’t have anything additional evidence to submit.
Im honestly at a loss, my son started secondary last year, I contacted the school months before to make them aware that my son has a long history of school refusal, bowel issues and struggles with learning due to suspected ASD and to ask for some provisions. I had a meeting and was told they can meet his needs via their usual learning. This is not the case, he’s been suspended, is learning next to nothing. Constant calls and emails from school about his lack of wanting to learn. I’ve been to SENCO support services for advice and also the council and they contacted the school to ask about my son and what they’re doing to help him. They replied saying he’s not even on the SEN register??
How can I get him on there, I’m emailing most weeks and being ignored, I’ve asked for meetings where nothings addressed. He has an EHA with the pastoral team, the school said they’d check in on him at the end of each day and that hasn’t happened. They’ve suggested counselling for him, but I’m already taking him out of school.
I guess my question is, how can I be successful with an EHCP when he isn’t on the SEN register? And what can I do to make sure he’s put on there when I’m being ignored by the school SENCO.
To make matters worse, his primary school didn’t forward his Sen records and when I’ve chased they just tell me everything’s been forwarded when I know it hasn’t. They’ve refused me a subject access request too so I’m not even sure if he was on the SEN register there despite them actually submitting the ASD referral for him and having many meetings with them and his attendance being really low due to school refusal and his continence issues and arfid.
It’s as though there’s no record of anything whatsoever since starting primary school, there’s no evidence to be found of any of his struggles anywhere. And no matter how much I try I can’t get him any help at all.
Dreading him going back again next week and his anxiety is through the roof again.
Any advice on where to go from here would be much appreciated.
Thank you