Help!
My DS12 has a 'good school' mainstream. They're really trying to help with both my DD 15 (ASD, Tourette's and anxiety) who they're paying for home schooling tutors and DS is at school but ND and likely ADHD but he's in the system that's taking forever.
He is a good child, if he gets upset it's always with himself, hits himself, says he wants to die and he should kill himself et ., it's awful but we're dealing with him and giving him lots of support at home, and school do support a little with TA (not his own though) and generally he's happy but has these outbursts of anger which are at himself.
There's this little bullying fucker at school who is always niggling at him, is in his tutor group, therefore some lessons too, and a teacher, who should have been told to ensure DS sits with agreed children, randomly put him together in a tech project, they've been working together, unbeknownst to me/DH since before half term.
This shitty little bully decided to ramp up his bullying this week calling my son stupid, his you're such an idiot etc at every opportunity in this class, my DS was so wound up he threw some of the Tech stuff at him then ran off - he came back to the classroom twice and tried to hit him. I'm not impressed by this behaviour of course but I'm bloody enraged that the school fucked up with this little yob and allowed my child to be bullied so badly that he's exhibited behaviour that's only happened once before ... when he was bullied and called names ...
help NM with ND or ADHD children, how have you dealt with this?
In general he's fine, clearly ND , follows rules and is good, really good. But doesn't cope with unfairness ☹️
School will isolate him for 2 days with a discussion about what can be allowed at school and what's isn't - he already knows this but needs to have some punishment because it was wrong what he did, I'm just furious he was the last peg in the row, after school fucked up ... sorry - angry and
Venting mum!
Thanks for any support and advice