Autism Diagnosis in 50s-did it improve life?

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Anyone who has been diagnosed with autism in their 50s, has is made a positive difference to your life?

After a lot of research and reflection I have long suspected that I’m probably autistic, as would my son be, if tested.

It would explain so much about my life and how I am, but I don’t know if I should go down the route of seeking testing/diagnosis, would it make a difference to my life, other than feeling validated (for want of a better expression)

Anyone?

I am in my early 50's and was diagnosed this week. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago and it was suggested at the time that I also be assessed for ASD, so I knew I had both from my late 40's.

The difference it made to me was knowing and understanding who I am. I tried ADHD meds but they didn't help me. For ASD there is no post-diagnosis support, but don't underestimate the importance of knowing who you are. It enables you to learn strategies to help yourself. It is 100% worthwhile.

Where do you find strategies?

@ADHDQueen thank you for sharing…I had a feeling a diagnosis wouldn’t make a material difference, just doing the research I’ve done -also online testing, although I appreciate that’s only an indicator of likelihood-has explained so much about myself and my life, which is maybe enough, although an actual diagnosis, should there be one, would potentially make my working life easier to manage

I kind of knew for 5 years but just recently went for an assessment because my manager and people I work with at my new job were picking up 'differences' in how I dealt with situations, and I wanted to head off any complaints.
Funnily enough my partner (who I also think is autistic) has been more understanding so that has been a nice bonus.

I'm on the same boat.. in my 50's. My dad has obvious traits and I know it runs in families. I am retired and unsure as to how an official diagnosis would improve my life. Most of my traits affect me socially.

I was in my forties. Yes it’s validating but I’ve found that my very difficult narcissistic mother uses it against me. Whenever I’m annoyed with her because of her childish behaviour she uses my diagnosis to convince herself - and to try to convince me - that I’m the problem.

I just don’t know whether it’s something I should follow up-it might make a difference with a work issue, or do I just accept that I probably am-it would certainly answer a lot of issues I’ve had in my life

Yes. Legal protection.

Speech and language therapy too.