My son got a diagnosis age 15, he’s now 16. Managed to get him through GCSEs somehow and he’s in sixth form doing A levels which is great for structure but he’s got absolutely no friends at all. I worry so much. These are critical years and I don’t know how to help him.
he had friends growing up but after lockdown he withdrew from everyone.
he is lonely and would like friends but only on his terms and his standards are so high I don’t think he’ll ever find people that he wants to spend time with.
if he was genuinely happy I think I wouldn’t worry so much but he seems very anxious and depressed to me.
he’s had some specialist counselling for anxiety but it didn’t make any difference. He has beta blockers for anxiety but he doesn’t like to take them. School are supportive but if he doesn’t want to accept help there’s not much they can do.
we’ve spent time with our friends who have kids his age that he really likes but he won’t speak to anyone anymore.
I’m second guessing my parenting constantly. Is it my fault? What could I do differently?
He’s now falling out with his dad (also ASD) and I don’t know where to turn.
I’m not diagnosed but think I’m ASD and feel so emotionally burnt out.
My fears are that after sixth form he retreats to his bedroom and never comes out. He spends all his time at home in his room unless I plan a day trip but then he’s straight back in his room.
anyone similar out there? Any tips?