I've posted in here as I strongly feel I'm neurodivergent. I seem to put all my energy into working as a way of coping with my social anxiety and moody dh.
I think I have ADHD.
Anyway I ended up working almost 60 hr weeks for years.Due to the industry I'm in I worked w ends eves Xmas the lot.
This was great as I love my job but the last yr we were v short staffed I couldn't even see my dh at all and the pay wasn't the going rate where I live.
So I saw a job better pay less hrs weekends off got it and kinda reluctantly left.
My new role was dull which would be fine however my immediate colleagues won't speak to me and have made the job a real misery.Ive stuck it out and gained lots of support from pretty much everyone else.
My old job offered me to go back and the money has jumped so much it is better than my current place and I get along with everyone and more importantly I can be my true self.
But I have to work weekends.The pay is around 8 k a yr more for a few more hours which is no probs as I have too much energy.
Has anyone on here used work as a way of coping with issues and not having to deal with relationships.
I'm quite impulsive so haven't made a snap decision this time.