Hallo, I have ASD and have just had a good job offer but think I will have to decline because the idea of changing to a new job is too traumatic. I have been doing the same low paid but relatively low stress job for the past 11 years, for a worthy charity. I know I could do better career-wise, because I have a first class degree but I have never had a graduate type job because I don't think I can handle the stress.
I did once accept a higher level job but had a severe mental breakdown as a result of the stress which took me years to recover from.
My husband is upset that I want to reject the new job offer, because I worked so hard for the interview etc and I am not fully using my talents where I am, but I am terrified of history repeating itself. I now realise I will probably never change jobs, unless they sack me.
I feel really bad about wasting the prospective employers time and don't know how I'm going to tell them. It was such a good opportunity and I feel like such a loser. But at least my current employers like me and the job is manageable. Can any of you relate to this? Is this sort of thing common with people with ASD?
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Declining Job Offer due to ASD
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Willowcat77 · 22/09/2022 12:09
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26/09/2022 09:56
Willowcat77 · 25/09/2022 14:35
Thanks @Tired2tired Yes, I'm trying not to feel such a failure about it. At least I have a job, even though I'll never be a high flyer now! Apparently only 22 percent of autistic people are in any kind of employment, so I should be grateful.
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