I feel like I've read every book, decluttered many times - losing things I wish I still had - but none of it has made daily executive function easier.
part of it is that even if things have a home, I don't recall where it is. it doesn't take long to locate in a small flat, but I am in that head space where I'm getting on my own nerves and wasting far too much energy on chores while not actually finishing them.
i'm seriously considering getting an organiser in to set up a system. It might mean getting new furniture etc. I won't say I can't figure stuff out, but I've failed many times and it's overwhelming and boring.
has anyone paid for help and was it worth it? Thanks.