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Years to wait for ADHD diagnosis for DD18. Any advise..?

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SicklyYellow · 22/05/2022 12:00

Dd18 is really struggling at uni.

Her doctor put her forward for a referral to the local adult MH services for ADHD, but they've spat her out, saying the queue is too long and they're not accepting anyone else.

I think we'll have to go private, but even for that there's a 2 or 3 year wait.

Can anyone offer any advice or suggestions?

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BertieBotts · 22/05/2022 12:08

Being on the list is better than not being on it.

Can you contact other areas and see if that's any better? Once she has a diagnosis she can do medication reviews with her GP, I believe.

In the meantime, get her onto How To ADHD and the reddit ADHD forums. There are useful tips even without medication.

Absolutechaos · 22/05/2022 16:39

We were told a 4 month wait list for clinical partners - it's online so not location specific (if you are in the Uk?). That was for a 17yo. Not sure if it's longer for adults.

EmmatheStageRat · 22/05/2022 16:48

My DD (14) got an assessment with ADHD360 very quickly (within about a fortnight of completing the initial screening online). The downside of going through a private company is that the prescription charges are astronomical but I’m praying that ADHD360 will agree to move towards shared care so we can access medication on the NHS.

adhdforme · 23/05/2022 15:49

I have been on the NHS waitlist for exactly 2 years this month. When I first got referred I was told the waitlist was 18 months. I figured if I'd waited 40 years, I could wait 18 months. I called about 6 weeks ago to find out what position I was on the waitlist. The woman I spoke to told me they were only just seeing patient referrals from October 2018!!!!! 🤯

So realistically the waitlist is about 4yrs long! 🥴

I've paid to go private as a result because I can't keep going on like this. I got an appointment date last week, but the next available one they had wasn't until mid / late August. So you definitely can get private appointments still that are faster than waiting for the NHS

AwkwardPaws27 · 23/05/2022 16:00

Have a look at the Psychiatry-UK page on Right to Choose. They might be able to see her more quickly than the local MH service.

Trafficjamlog · 23/05/2022 16:04

Privately you shouldn’t have to wait that long. We went about 6 weeks from referral to diagnosis privately

iamme21 · 23/05/2022 16:06

What area are you in? DS 21 was referred back in March/April and told waiting list was 4 years. He got a call this week saying our area are now working with Clinical Partners and he should get his assessment in August/September. This is NW

OneRingToRuleThemAll · 23/05/2022 16:12

Can you 'shop around' for a private assessment. I was diagnosed with ASD last month after a year long wait for a private assessment. I would have thought ADHD would have been quicker.

Bizzlemizzle · 23/05/2022 16:12

I have gone through NHS Right to Choose, while there is quite a long wait due to the popularity of it you maybe be able to find services which aren't as busy in your area through this.

I was referred in Feb to Phyciatry UK and I am still waiting on an appointment which will likely be in 2023 - they are working on referals that came in at the end of last year currently.

outofbed · 23/05/2022 16:27

Has she contacted the Disability team at her university? Although she doesn't have a diagnosis there may be able to put some support/ adjustments in place based on how her mental health is currently being affected.

They may also be able to help her get assessed for ADHD via a different route if appropriate - a diagnostic assessment for specific learning differences. Whilst this wouldn't be a medical diagnosis so no meds could be prescribed, it would enable her to get learning adjustments and also get DSA funding for a mentor/ tutor whilst she is at uni.

ClumpingBambooIsALie · 23/05/2022 16:36

Bizzlemizzle · 23/05/2022 16:12

I have gone through NHS Right to Choose, while there is quite a long wait due to the popularity of it you maybe be able to find services which aren't as busy in your area through this.

I was referred in Feb to Phyciatry UK and I am still waiting on an appointment which will likely be in 2023 - they are working on referals that came in at the end of last year currently.

Is PsychiatryUK really taking that long now? I was referred end of January thru Right to Choose, given an appointment with a doctor, asked for a different doctor as the one they'd picked was unsuitable, diagnosed end of February, and given meds almost straight away (albeit complicated by the fact I have other kinds of mental so the whole meds thing went a bit wrong). Seems to defeat the purpose a bit if it's taking years even through them!

Iguessyourestuckwithme · 23/05/2022 16:39

I used my local Autism school (douchecroft) that does private patients/diagnostic.

adhdforme · 23/05/2022 16:40

@ClumpingBambooIsALie

Yes they've got a very long wait list. It's why I chose to go with a different private assessor rather than them because I didn't want to wait that long. The one I chose will refer to my Dr for shared care after 3 months. The wait is 3 months for my appointment

Years to wait for ADHD diagnosis for DD18.  Any advise..?
ClumpingBambooIsALie · 23/05/2022 17:14

adhdforme · 23/05/2022 16:40

@ClumpingBambooIsALie

Yes they've got a very long wait list. It's why I chose to go with a different private assessor rather than them because I didn't want to wait that long. The one I chose will refer to my Dr for shared care after 3 months. The wait is 3 months for my appointment

Makes perfect sense, that's a ridiculously long wait. I wonder if they're seeing their private patients any quicker.

Oblomov22 · 23/05/2022 17:49

I would ask to be re-referred on nhs. I would see if I could get seen by anyone privately, if you don't pay for a diagnosis privately but they see enough traits on first appointment, it might be enough to go get the nhs pushed harder.

Bizzlemizzle · 23/05/2022 20:16

@ClumpingBambooIsALie unfortunately yes, I've had some issues getting a referal due to funding and the area I am in. They were the best choice for me at the time of referal as I was quite limited with private assessors too.

Private patients are in the same que too, its all done by time of referal nhs or private.

But still a lot quicker than NHS, well for me I couldn't go directly through them at all due to no funding.

ClumpingBambooIsALie · 23/05/2022 21:30

God what an utter mess. Good luck with this one.

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