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Tell him to get a job in McDonalds

11 replies

Comefromaway · 20/04/2022 10:46

Is something I hear a lot, including on here when I talk about the difficulties of my student son getting a p/t job. He got turned down already despite being a hard working, personable young man. Their online recruitment questionnaire is so vague and needs lots of inference.

Now I see ads like this and realise there is no hope

You’ll need to be confident in approaching and dealing with diverse groups of people. Friendly, courteous and helpful behaviour will come naturally to you and you’ll work well as part of a team. Effective communication skills such as attentive listening, face-to-face verbal communication and eye contact are a must. You’ll also need to understand the importance of maintaining high standards of quality and service as well as cleanliness. The ability to maintain high energy levels whilst working both efficiently and productively is essential. Finally, your appearance should be smart and clean.

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ManUforthewin · 20/04/2022 10:51

Our local Sainsburys has lots of neuro diverse employees. Also M&S. They are still able to work and provide the service necessary.

Comefromaway · 20/04/2022 11:04

My dd works for ATG theatres. They are brilliant to work for, so inclusive and they often ask her to attend meetings about how they can improve the experience for both ND customers and employees.

Shame on Mcdonalds for posting such abelist ads.

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BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 20/04/2022 23:21

My ds wouldn't last five minutes in a public facing role.

HMG107 · 24/04/2022 13:15

What makes you feel like there is no hope? I worked those types of jobs whilst at uni and working towards a career in teaching, as such, having and developing those skills were important for the career I wanted.

Customer service roles are only a small number of the part-jobs available. What is your son good at?

OatcakeCravings · 24/04/2022 13:18

I did plenty of non customer facing roles at Uni including cleaning, hotel chambermaid and kitchen prep assistant. Have a look for vacancies like this maybe?

OatcakeCravings · 24/04/2022 13:21

Apologies I just saw this on active didn’t notice the board.

however although I’m not neurodiverse I barely spoke to anyone in the jobs I listed. The cleaning job I had was in offices and I had a key and went in when no one else was there!

Comefromaway · 24/04/2022 13:51

HMG107 · 24/04/2022 13:15

What makes you feel like there is no hope? I worked those types of jobs whilst at uni and working towards a career in teaching, as such, having and developing those skills were important for the career I wanted.

Customer service roles are only a small number of the part-jobs available. What is your son good at?

He’s really good at customer service type roles. As is my daughter. No eye contact needed.

It’s just getting past the application process when ableist criteria are used to filter applications.

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Comefromaway · 24/04/2022 13:53

And don’t just take my word for it, Dd was told that the number of customer letters sent to Management praising her at one point was getting ridiculous.

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Comefromaway · 24/04/2022 13:54

OatcakeCravings · 24/04/2022 13:18

I did plenty of non customer facing roles at Uni including cleaning, hotel chambermaid and kitchen prep assistant. Have a look for vacancies like this maybe?

They would be the kind of roles that would send Ds into total meltdown. he is vertical squeamish about cleaning and has very poor fine motor skills.

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Comefromaway · 24/04/2022 13:57

Ds did get some temp work handing out flyers in the town promoting an event. He was brilliant at individualising things eg he’d talk about facilities for kids to families and it being dog friendly to dog walkers. In fact one day they got so many walk ups holding his flyers they had to stop him as they’d reached capacity.

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Theunamedcat · 24/04/2022 13:59

Can the university help him? My friends child got a campus job and it reduced her rent

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