I found the cross-linked paper interesting as well, especially as many of the interviewees are musicians themselves
journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0305735620988596#
This started getting worse as I got older - I have very wide musical tastes and my family is fairly musical (pro and semi-pro musicians, singers, djs) . I often make up little songs, sing angry songs and I do listen to loud angry rock/indie music if I am very angry, as well as calming classical (mostly non-vocal)when I need it, and find music can be very emotional with some pieces bringing me to tears or being very exciting or joyful.
On consideration, The irrational anger seems to be linked to volume as well as music type.
I think it can be an unconscious reflex in some, so for example many years ago out of desperation, I worked in a supermarket with piped music which was on a loop changed between about four tapes, one played every day; at lunchtimes, one particular track came on -"There There" by Radiohead, which I love, but I digress. It has been described as "a rock song with layered percussion building to a loud climax". (reference on wikipedia)
Without them realising it - as no-one ever said anything about the music specifically, this track seemed to absolutely infuriate most shoppers, and they would suddenly become grumpy, even rude and angry in a couple of cases and so on. When it ended, the customers seemed to calm down again after a few minutes. Music moving the masses one supposes?
Apologies for the essay, have any of you observed how music affects others