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If you are ND, do you like magicians?

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ofwarren · 14/03/2022 19:33

Sorry for the lame title but I didn't know what else to write.

I've just seen on Facebook that a new magicians bar place has opened near where I live and it made me think..

I absolutely HATE magicians, magic tricks and anything to do with illusions. It's something I've hated since being small, to the point I would cry and run away from them at parties.

I just don't understand why they are seen as entertaining. If magic isn't real, why would I want to watch someone doing something that they pretend is real? And don't get me started on the ones that try and trick the general public and make a spectacle of you shudder

I've spent my life trying to understand people's behaviour, so someone purposely setting out to trick me doesn't feel like fun.

Anyone else?

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Percie · 14/03/2022 20:28

I'm the same. A friend was irritated with me recently that I wasn't impressed/interested in a video of a magician on a talent show. I also dislike talent shows so that didn't help. But, like you, I dislike trickery - magic, practical jokes, etc., - anything that relies on tricking someone.

Scautish · 14/03/2022 22:11

Yep hate magic. I studied physics and I have a NEED to know how things work so magic annoys me greatly.

Though when my kids did magic shows when they were little it was cutest thing ever.

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 14/03/2022 23:25

No, not really. They make me feel angry and frustrated that I can't work out how they're done.

BoardLikeAMirror · 15/03/2022 07:59

I'm the opposite - I have always really liked them, although I was disappointed as a small child when I gradually realised it wasn't 'real' magic but sleight of hand.

AffIt · 15/03/2022 10:45

I like some magicians - I'm fascinated by Derren Brown and Penn & Teller, but I think the thing I enjoy about their acts is the way they present the psychology behind it, and explain and break down concepts such as misdirection etc.

I hated the vogue for 'street magicians' that was on the go about ten years ago, though, and 'look at me, I'm so clever' types, like David Blaine. I have a very strong sense of social justice / fairness and I don't like seeing people sent up or being made a fool of in public.

I'll also run away if I see close-up magicians approaching me at weddings or similar (I'd like to find the person who initially thought this was a good idea for wedding 'entertainment' and tap them on the nose with a rolled-up newspaper)

I did, however, go through a period of teaching myself coin magic / sleight of hand a while ago (inspired by Neil Gaiman's 'American Gods') and got quite good.

LadyCordeliaFitzgerald · 15/03/2022 17:19

I’m fascinated by it, particularly the Darren Brown style of mentalism. I love the challenge of working out what’s actually going on (which isn’t anything like what he claims when he “explains” his tricks).

I’m a terrible volunteer though as I unwittingly mess up things by not doing the obvious/expected because my brain shoots into overdrive, so I’ve learned how to perfect the shifty don’t-pick-me-I’m-mad vibe.

nearlyspringyay · 15/03/2022 17:21

No I hate it, but so do most of my NT friends.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/03/2022 17:25

Nope, can't be bothered with them. I view it in exactly the same way I view religion, psychics and so on. Basically just shysters and charlatans who profit from exploiting the gullible. Likewise grown adults who actually believe in the divine, paranormal, etc. I can only wonder at why they are incapable of basic logic and common sense.

Londono · 15/03/2022 17:39

I'm NT but also hate any kind of trickery - including puppets and I always have. I also don't like jigsaws or crosswords etc - I don't get the point of them!

AffIt · 15/03/2022 21:00

@Londono

I'm NT but also hate any kind of trickery - including puppets and I always have. I also don't like jigsaws or crosswords etc - I don't get the point of them!
With respect, why are you here? This is a board for ND users.
Londono · 16/03/2022 16:31

Because I thought it was an interesting discussion point and people can post wherever they like on Mumsnet.

Wishihadanalgorithm · 16/03/2022 16:33

I taught a ND student who loved magic. To the point that he now works as a magician part time. I guess it’s a case of different strokes for different folks.

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