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Possible autism, Dr called appointment scheduled what next?

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MamaBeeeeeeeB · 28/02/2022 14:45

So back story...
For the last 5 years I've had slight concerns that my DS could be autistic but due to him not having the main traits as a baby (he made eye contact, recognised and responded to his name ect) people were easily able to convince me it was just 'normal boy behaviour'
His school doesnt think he has any learning disabilities as he is great at maths, art and science (subjects he enjoys) however he is behind in english, (reading/writing) and learning with the student who do have disabilities.
I feel like I'm holding back by not having the idea investigated and that a diagnosis is probably very likely which would help him get the help he needs rather than pushed because he's expected to be further ahead.

I have many reasons why e.g
-his fake laugh when others laugh
-his lack of awareness of personal space, his inability to pick up social cues especially when he's making people feel uncomfortable
-his overwhelmingly loud voice that he isn't aware is loud (he gets alot of funny looks in public for this 😔 that upset him)
-his overly emotional responses to almost everything new
-his need to control any game he plays
-the fact that he will happily speak to and hug any random stranger 😅
to name a few...
I'm rambling now sorry.

My real question I guess it what should I expect next now that I've contacted a Dr?
Will the GP just put him forward for an assessment or is he likely to want to speak to the school ect first?

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LizDoingTheCanCan · 28/02/2022 15:48

Hi Mama, you might get more responses on the SN Children board.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/special_needs

MamaBeeeeeeeB · 28/02/2022 15:53

Thank you

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LadyCordeliaFitzgerald · 28/02/2022 15:58

I don’t want to discourage you but prepare yourself for a bit of a fight. At every stage of ds’ diagnosis I only barely managed to scrape through the gate keeping to the extent where I was completely floored by the emphatic diagnosis he received. Until I got him in front of the diagnostic team no one else was seeing much more than a worried mother.

I’m not in UK and I’m not sure where you are, so can’t advice on specifics.

The SN children section will be more specific on the pathway and how long it might take. Do post this again or search over there.

MamaBeeeeeeeB · 28/02/2022 16:03

Thank you I have reposted on the SN children discussion.

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