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Establishing habits accountability group??

16 replies

SleepyJackson · 05/02/2022 06:06

Is anyone up for this? My bar is v low: eat food. Brush teeth. Track habits BlushGrin

I have bought a lovely habit tracking journal. I am going to try to resist adding too many items to list this week. Start Monday.

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Percie · 05/02/2022 07:47

This might be the push I need to try and get my sleeping and eating into some sort of order. Things have been getting worse for a while.

Yuckypretty · 05/02/2022 08:57

I need to stop binge eating sweet food after lunch. I do it every day.

I want to use my exercise bike at least 3 times a week, just for 5 mins.

Percie · 05/02/2022 12:19

Do you find a trigger to binge eating sweet food pretty or is it a routine habit?

I'm trying to get out of a place where I eat 1-2kg of chocolate/sweets each day and I can't work out if that's a reaction which has become routine or something else.

dietpepsi13 · 05/02/2022 12:28

I would definitely be up for this aswell. I want to limit time spent on my phone and try to go to sleep earlier

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 05/02/2022 13:30

I need to start going on the treadmill to get some exercise 🚶‍♀️

Yuckypretty · 05/02/2022 17:40

@Percie when I binge it's out of habit. Like I get a sweet craving right after my lunch and then I just can't stop eating chocolate. Separate to that I comfort eat like if I'm stressed I'll opt for a chocolate rather than shout at my son's!

Percie · 06/02/2022 00:38

@yuckypretty sounds similar - it's really getting me down.

Today has been very poor on the eating front: leftover pizza (not even mine), chocolates, toast, dip and some cheese. Why is it so hard to just make a healthy meal for myself and then eat the bloody thing? Sad

Yuckypretty · 06/02/2022 08:55

Sorry that it's getting you down. Are you setting realistic expectations? Or just expecting that you'll wake up and snap out of it?

I find making gradual changes works best for me.

This weekend I've been bad, had a massive takeaway last night. It was delicious though! This morning I have gone on my cross trainer so hoping that the endorphins will help me not want to binge eat later today.

Percie · 06/02/2022 09:21

I'm trying to be realistic and I have a plan, but I just can't seem to get it into 'routine'. Weirdly I have a point where things do just snap into place. I can say the same thing over and over with no change, then one day something 'snaps' in my head, it literally feels different, and suddenly it just works. I don't know how to make that happen when I need it to, though.

I've been told to work on my sleep first. That's coming along OK but I'll sleep better if I eat better/don't worry about dying because my eating is so poor.

Exercise wise I was doing really well but that's completely stopped recently and I'm not sure how to start again. I mean to do it then just don't. Partly that's also the conflict of being told to 'rest' and not knowing whether I'm 'allowed' to exercise or not.

Percie · 06/02/2022 09:22

Also good job on getting on the cross trainer - fingers crossed the endorphins do their thing

Yuckypretty · 08/02/2022 11:11

How everyone doing today?

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 08/02/2022 13:22

How everyone doing today?

I'm low carbing and I've walked 1.5 miles to the chemists and back.

I'm bloody starving. Dh fed me a small chocolate bar last night after I told him not to give me any carbs. He said it was his last one and a great sacrifice to have given it to me. I told him the sacrifice was not appreciated and never to do it again.

felulageller · 09/02/2022 00:14

Eating is my stimming.

I love the sensation of eating and tasting. It makes me happy. Nothing much else does...

SingToTheSky · 09/02/2022 00:21

Hi could I join you please? I find habit forming a constant battle between my autistic brain wanting routine and my ADHD brain wanting spontaneity Hmm :o

But I’m trying to very gradually build up a few habits that help shape my week a bit more especially now I’m working and studying.

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 09/02/2022 09:17

Hi could I join you please? I find habit forming a constant battle between my autistic brain wanting routine and my ADHD brain wanting spontaneity

I have this problem 😆

My autistic mind is the angel 😇and my adhd is the demon 😈 it's a constant struggle to balance the two.

SingToTheSky · 09/02/2022 10:43

One of my fave uses of the Spider-Man meme… :o

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