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Witnessed a crime today and feeling shook up

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ofwarren · 03/02/2022 18:24

My neighbours house and car got attacked by 2 men with crowbars today as I was just arriving home. I witnessed it all. I was shaky afterwards but I've just had a panic attack which I've not experienced for about a year. I used to suffer with health anxiety and I felt a twinge in my chest and then suddenly felt like I was going to die but it was just a panic attack.
Currently lay under my weighted blanket on the bed with my cats.

What's your method for stopping panic attacks?
I use YouTube videos that talk you down. My heart was racing so bad but the video makes you breathe slower and it really works.

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ofwarren · 03/02/2022 19:26

@MNHQ I was supposed to post this in neurodiverse mumsnetters. Can you move it please?

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languagelover96 · 11/02/2022 10:04

Breathe in and out.

Thoosa · 14/02/2022 11:54

Only just seen this. That sounds terrifying. Are you okay now? Did the police come?

HebeMumsnet · 14/02/2022 12:17

Hope you're ok, OP. Flowers

We've moved the thread over for you now.

MangoBiscuit · 14/02/2022 12:29

Sorry you went through that OP, it sounds terrifying.

I try to stop panic attacks before they properly ramp up. So when the panic starts up, I run to my room, on my bed, weighted blanket right up over my head and cocoon myself with my cuddly beluga whale. Then I focus on my breathing. First I focus on getting enough air in and out, so breathe quite fast and deep. Then I focus on slowing it down back to normal (if I get a spike of panic, back to just getting enough air) usually by then I'm starting to calm back down, but if not, I mentally go through my body and focus on what I can feel (feet, legs, back etc etc weight, texture, temperature etc etc) Once my physical symptoms are calmed, I will distract myself until my brain has calmed down. Usually mindless games on my phone. Tetris is good for this. If I try to process what triggered me, while my brain is awash in adreneline and cortisol, I just panic again.

Afterwards, I have to be very gentle with myself, because panic attacks are exhausting.

How are you feeling now @ofwarren?

BoardLikeAMirror · 14/02/2022 12:34

Flowers How awful.

I recite bits of books in my head or replay scenes from films I have watched when I'm feeling panicky - I have a really good memory for that sort of thing so I can do it for ages until my body has relaxed and I can let my brain think again.

I hope you feel better soon and that your neighbours are OK too.

ofwarren · 14/02/2022 13:16

It was a few days ago now so I'm okay thank you.
You can tell I must have been shook up because I posted in the totally wrong place!

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BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 14/02/2022 13:33

Oh god, that's terrible, I hope you're okay.

I find Propranolol is great for stopping panic attacks and helping anxiety in general. Perhaps you could ask your GP to prescribe some to have in just in case.

I hope your neighbour issue gets resolved with no further problems.

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