I caught my husband texting my SIL (brothers wife) in a very inappropriate manner. Complimenting her and asking for nudes. I dnt knw if she ever sent any nudes but I knw she's been sending selfies. And I knw they've been talking for a while. I'm absolutely heartbroken. He's betrayed me in the worst way possible. I genuinely believe if I hadnt confronted him now then it would have gone further. I cannot believe either of them would do this to me. When I confronted him he denied it again and again then when I showed him proof he had no choice but to admit it. At that point he cried and begged for my forgiveness. He was smacking himself and kept saying how he's made a mistake and he's such a horrible person . But I just had to say I forgive him so he could stop hitting himself. Anyway I've super condensed this post because I've already posted this on another forum. I'm posting here because I wanted islamic advice or just advice from other Muslims on what you would do. We have 2 young kids together. I can't forget the messages it gives me anxiety any time I think about it or anytime someone's says her name. What do I do. I feel likes he's ruined everything i can't even bare to look at or talk to him.