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Madtaz337 · 19/12/2025 17:50

I am autistic and dyslexic. I am a single parent with a child with ASD. We have been threatened by our neighbours for over a few years now I’ve sent all my Medical evidence into my house and Association but there are completely unwilling to move us. I am already on the local council in group A, but not being moved yet it’s been a year. Is there anything else I can do to try and get a move quicker as my daughter’s mental health is worse than mine and she is now suicidal and the housing Association doesn’t seem to care about us being bullied and picked on for the last six years of being in our house. I also have physical mobility issues which I have already sent them evidence off.
thank you

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DeanStockwell · 19/12/2025 18:17

That sounds terrible and scary , have you reported all the issues to the police ?
I think you need to contact all the charities out there that may be able to help.
Citizens advice
Woman aid
Shelter
Child support services
And anyone else you can think of

Madtaz337 · 19/12/2025 18:24

Yes, I have spoken to the police, but they have been absolutely useless as they say as a domestic issue and I should contact my housing association which I obviously have done.
I have also spoken to shelter and citizens advice bureau.
which advised me that my housing association could give me a management transfer or remove but up until now they have refused to do as the house is now in suitable for my needs. I am entitled to a bungalow regardless.
When we first moved in, I was told that they would evict us because they said that we were the issue because we were both autistic and the neighbours didn’t like us but that’s not our fault. We just don’t like screaming kids outside the house right up late into the evening in a dark street causing problems. I can’t even get a house swap if I wanted one because a lady on one of the groups told everybody what the kids were like on the street and no one wants to move here.
I’m more concerned at the moment with my daughter. I’ve managed to get her an EHCP after 11 years trying to get her into early College as she has had issues with School attendance because of the issues we have been facing. I just feel like it’s an uphill battle and I wasn’t sure who else I could try and contact.
Thank you for your advice

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DeanStockwell · 19/12/2025 18:31

Do you have a ring door bell or cctv ? If not it may be worth the investment.
Also keeping a really accurate diary may help .
Hopefully someone else will be along soon that can give you more advice.

Madtaz337 · 19/12/2025 18:34

Yes I’ve had a ring doorbell for the full six years. I’ve been here because when I moved in my neighbours attacked my child sent it to my house and association . Who told us they wouldn’t look at the footage. She was nine at the time and you could hear my neighbour swearing at her saying that she was going to kill her. But now we have a new neighbourhood coach taken over she said I cannot use any of that footage and I have to get new footage so I send the new footage and then she tells me to stop being a Karen. I was surprised when she asked me for medical evidence because I’m in group A. Which I have sent, but I have not heard from her at all and I was hoping that she would help us move, but I was speaking to another person on the estate who’s having similar issues to me and they said that the neighbourhood coach is useless. she just says she’s going to help when she actually doesn’t. I keep getting letters from them threatening to evict me but because I am an assure tenant. but because I am an assure tenant I was told that they could not evict me . Unless I didn’t pay my rent or did something wrong which I haven’t done any of that I’ve never had any complaints and I have had a council properties since I was 16. I am now in my 50s and this is the only place I have lived that I have been physically and mentally abused it. It’s a awful place to live and I wouldn’t want anyone to live with the housing association I’ve had to put up with.

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DeanStockwell · 19/12/2025 19:52

I whis there was some other advice I could give you.
I think the only thing uou can do is keep on pestering the HA , see if you can get in touch with someone else there that cam actually help.

You could also try posting your thread ( or a link to this post )on the legal page , someone there may be able to advise

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