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Requesting extra support with childcare from Adult Social Services

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Everlore · 16/08/2024 20:52

I am blind and have juvenile rheumatoid arthritis, this has been the case since I was a baby so I am very used to dealing with my conditions and am generally quite organised.
My able-bodied husband and I are expecting our longed-for first child, I am currently seventeen weeks pregnant.
I currently get some support from the Adult Social Services team at my local authority, they provide me with a personal budget which I use to pay PAs to provide me with support with personal care needs, cooking, shopping and general household admin.
I know I will need extra support when baby arrives, especially in order to attend appointments and access groups and activities with my newborn as going out alone with them will not be possible. I have good family and friend support and my husband is wonderful, however he works full time.
I plan to ask the local authority for extra support hours when I reach twenty weeks pregnant, I haven't wanted to approach them about this before then because I have been so anxious about this pregnancy and we haven't wanted anyone else to know before this point. I am capable of making important decisions about my child's care and welfare, I just need some extra help with everyday practical, physical aspects of caring for my baby. Has anyone had any experience of requesting extra support from Adult Social Services to help with safely caring for a baby. I have a very clear idea of what specific help i will require prior to requesting a reassessment but I wondered if anyone might have any tips about how to approach this with my local authority to get the best outcome for me and our baby.
Thanks.

OP posts:
Singleandproud · 16/08/2024 20:55

Can't help with your specific request but Home Start might also be worth getting InTouch with for days carers can't cover if that becomes an issue

Everlore · 17/08/2024 18:35

That's very helpful, thanks.

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DragonFly98 · 17/08/2024 18:41

Very unlikely to happen , if you were a single parent it would be different but as the baby has a family it will be seen as his responsibility. The fact that he works full time is irrelevant. You are lucky, and I say lucky flippantly as obviously you should have a PA budget for your care needs ,but very often a LA will say no the partner can leave their job and claim carers allowance as your carer. As this is care for a baby with a non disabled parent the o us with be on them to provide any care you can't. They may allow you to use some of the hours you already have to help with childcare or they may not it's council dependent.

myrtleWilson · 17/08/2024 18:44

Does your area have Family Hubs OP? They exist in 75 local authority areas and may be able to offer some support...

ETA - Congratulations on your pregnancy!

DragonFly98 · 17/08/2024 18:46

*sorry I meant has a father not has a family.

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