Hi guys, hopefully I can get someone else's point of view, and you can tell me if I'm going crazy or I have a right to feel pretty damn let down!!So I have a number of health conditions and am registered disabled,I've never used my daughters school car park disabled bays as I felt I didn't need to at that point, my pain and disability was manageable. ( its a private gated carpark with buzzer entry , for the use if both infant and junior school)My slaughter is niw in the juniours just started the new school year, my health is deteriorated my disability affects 1 of my legs now and cases me a great deal of pain , I cannot walk too far and so as per the policy I wrote in to Head of school and asked for permission to park in the disabled bay in the on site car park, listed my conditions etc, later that week I had the decision which was granted I have acess... then it all goes T##s up.....My health conditions cause me to not be able to take my children to sxhool in the mornings, and so I have a very supportive husband that does all this for me , drops them off and bevause I want to be part in doing this I always collect them from school so we both have a part each.However, I have just now been told by school, that I no longer have acess to the disabled bays on site as my husbands the driver ( bearing in mind I'm unable to drive now as the pain I am in with my leg and hip ) and the fact he's the driver then he can collect them for me so I dint need the bay.I explained that I want to be able to collect my children from school, I already feel low as it is as there's lots I can't do and the 1 thing I want to do is collect them and as well as I can't drop them in the mornings off, the inly way I'm able to do this is if I park on site, I said my husband has to drive me and she said but then he can get them, I explained they would be taking that away from me . And can't my husband just drop me off at the gates outside, which no he can't as its da ferrous, its a main road the school run is chaotic and he'd be obstructing traffic. Also I wouldn't be able to walk that far.Question is , where do I stand. Am I being petty by feeling so down....what do I do....Thanks so much for reading my post.I also suffer from sever anxiety, and ocd and my husband is my registered carer.