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Curiosity - Alcohol and ASD

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HelenaGWells · 07/01/2017 12:20

I am completely teetotal and I'm curious as to how common this is. I noticed a few people on the recent thread talking about not drinking for similar reasons to myself and I'm reasonably sure I recognised some fellow aspie teetotallers.

For me one of the reasons I don't drink is that I don't like the taste (which I guess could be an aspie thing as many of us have very specific and strong likes and dislikes food/drink wise). However there are many types of alcohol I haven't even bothered trying as the main reason is that I find it affects me very badly.

I find it incredibly easy to become very anxious and depressed. My tolerance is and always has been utterly shite. I can go from happy to spaced to panic to suicidal within 3 drinks (and I can go from zero to vomiting on your shoes in 1 mouthful if you give me vodka...)

I also hate the feeling of being out of control. I spend my whole life feeling out of my depth and I can't cope when the drunk feeling takes away the little control I have. When I had my DD they gave me a spinal to remove the placenta. That affected me far more than ANYTHING else in that labour or my labours since. I just could not cope with not having control of my own body and I freaked out until it wore off. I wasn't too bad on gas and air as it spaced me enough to not care but it wore off fast so I could regain control reasonably quickly when I felt I needed to. However the spinal just left me feeling trapped and paniced. It was awful.

Is anyone else like this? I am just curious as to if it's a common thing to be so badly affected by alcohol.

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WingsAloft · 07/01/2017 12:49

I'm much the same, Helena. I'm what my mother used to call a "two pot screamer", though I'm more of a "two sip sleeper". I also dislike the feeling of being out of control, as well as the taste of most alcohol. I can only drink very sweet ciders and wines like moscato.

They gave me pethidine during my posterior labour. It was an awful feeling being all spacey and sleepy in between the "please let me die" contractions (in contrast, the spacey, sleepy feeling of almost bleeding out after my previous labour was quite peaceful). I don't get why anyone would seek out that sort of sensation.

I have read somewhere that a low tolerance for alcohol is common for people with ASD, but I also believe many people with ASD use it as a social lubricant.

PolterGoose · 07/01/2017 18:36

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