I never had a problem with the Bounty women while having my three DDs. With DD1, it was the weekend, and the MWs gave me the packs, just saying there were free samples in them. I didn't have to register, there was no hard sell. The BW did come round on the monday, and did one of the other mum's photos, but didn't bother me after I declined the photos, and she wasn't pushy.
With DD2 and 3, the BW came round and asked if I had a pack and would I like one, and offered photos. I said no to the photos, and yes to the packs, because some of the free samples are useful. She took my details but was not pushy about the photos. Only as she was leaving, did she mention the CB form was in the pack (after she had given me the pack). She was with me for about 2 minutes, and did not return after the first visit.
I had EMCS with DD1 & 2, and ELCS with DD3, so was in for a couple of days each time. It was other people who would not stay out of my room, depite the MW writing a "do not disturb" sign and sticking it to my door after one sleepless night with DD3!!!!
I think the packs have gone steadily downhill since DD1 was born, nearly 6 years ago. The first two packs had nice hooded towels in, which were actually good quality and which I used a lot, plus other quite nice/genuinely useful stuff. It never swayed me to purchase items I wouldn't have done, though. I gave away stuff from the packs to other people who would use it, and unwanted emails / post went in the recycling / spam folder. I have to say though, that I haven't received very much marketing stuff at all as a result of the packs. I think when I first "joined" bounty, it was pre-hospital visit, via a paper form, so I assume I ticked a "no junk mail" option on that. I actually liked the packs, and felt quite sad when I'd had the last one with DD3, knowing I woudn't be having any more DC!!! (need to get out more....)
I am really shocked by the horrible experiences others have had, and I was sorry to hear about these. Clearly these were so, so wrong.
I do think that the system needs to be looked at, perhaps taking the reps & packs out of hospitals and putting them in supermarkets?