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Naomi Wolf: live webchat TODAY, Thursday 6 September, 12pm to 1pm

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RachelMumsnet · 04/09/2012 15:22

Naomi Wolf is joining us for a live webchat on Thursday 6 September at 12 noon. Naomi's latest book, Vagina - A New Biography, has attracted major media attention this month and we're delighted she's joining us to tell us more about the book and answer your questions.

Described as 'exhilarating and groundbreaking', Vagina combines cultural history, physiology and personal memoir to explore the role of female desire and how it affects female identity, creativity and confidence.

Naomi Wolf is author of seven books including the bestseller, The Beauty Myth. She travels regularly to speak about gender equality and social justice. She lives in New York and is working towards a doctorate at New College, Oxford University.

Please post your question to Naomi in advance, or set the date in your diary to join us this Thursday at midday to chat to Naomi 'live'.

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MmeLindor · 06/09/2012 21:50

I will admit to being wrong.

When I read that Ms Wolf was to do a MN webchat, I was rather upset. I thought that it was wrong to have someone who perpetuated rape myths on MN after the strength of the We Believe You campaign.

It was however, a very good webchat, albeit not one that Naomi was hoping for. Either her publicist was a bit disingenuous when arranging this, or she was expecting the hostile reaction, I am not quite sure. It was good to be able to put our questions directly to her, and I was pleased that she realised how much damage that she has done with her letter in the Huffington Post. I can only hope that she follows up with a decent apology, with no spreading of blame onto others.

Am heartily in favour of vagina emoticons, and I have my vagina's permission to say so.

thenightsky · 06/09/2012 21:52

OOoh yes... please let's have Jilly on soon!

PseudoBadger · 06/09/2012 22:11

I can't believe no one called it their 'sex' :o

garlicnutty · 06/09/2012 22:23

Am heartily in favour of vagina emoticons, and I have my vagina's permission to say so Grin

YAY! That should keep Tech busy for a little while ...

TheCrackFox · 06/09/2012 22:35

Just read the entire thread and it really should be in classics. My vagina found if hilarious.

mcmooncup · 06/09/2012 23:05

I've just been that website that Naomi said we MUST READ and then come back to her.......dailycloudt.com

I can't find anything relevant to the discussion - am I being extra dim or is it that I am very unfocused and unconfident because I've still not connected my brain with my vagina today?

garlicnutty · 06/09/2012 23:09

No, there's nothing there, mcm! My vagina wonders if they're going to put up some work of hers, but are running late? (My vagina's always telling me off for inflicting similar on my clients, tbh Blush)

swallowedAfly · 06/09/2012 23:11

what time are we wanking?

mcmooncup · 06/09/2012 23:16

Jimmy Carr is on my tv, my lubrication and engorgement levels are being seriously depleted as we speak.................give me 5 to google Paul Walker/Rupert P-J and I'm ready.

messyisthenewtidy · 06/09/2012 23:30

Why is everyone being so harsh? Yes that letter was truly awful but she seemed to genuinely regret it and her years spent dealing with rape victims is proof of her dedication. She was also frank in her answers and didn't try to ignore the difficult questions.

As for the Vagina stuff, whether the science behind it is bogus or not, she obviously just cares about women's physical and emotional well being. She is arguing that porn culture is harmful to women's well being and that men need to pay more attention to how female sexual pleasure works. I can't disagree with that.

AliceHurled · 06/09/2012 23:31

I thought you had to read the book mooncup, then contact her to discuss using that website, as the chosen one.

mcmooncup · 06/09/2012 23:48
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messyisthenewtidy · 07/09/2012 00:08

Ok Albie! But I think she has, and I think she makes a good point about the governments "pimping" feminism for their own ends. Maybe I'm too soft.

MmeLindor · 07/09/2012 00:54

Messy
It is the signals that are sent when a 'leading feminist' talks about the conspiracy against Assange that is worrying.

And her use of rape myths such as women who are raped would not want to be in contact with their attackers afterwards, or that they would not have consensual sex after the rape.

Not to mention the anonymity issue, which would lead to less rapes reported not more. Who would report a rape if they knew that their pic could end in the paper, or their personal life could be dissected on internet fora?

OatyBeatie · 07/09/2012 08:04

I agree she does have a good point about govts "pimping feminism for their own ends." And her govt's horribly overbearing extradition policies are a target that needs attack. With the exception of the awful letter I think she did quite a good job on this webchat of defending her Assange stance (not that I agree with it) and was sometimes too harshly attacked.

It was the pseudoscience that antagonised me most. If you are going to write a book about neuroscience and well being it is not enough to "just care."

SuperB0F · 07/09/2012 08:32

Ariel Levy has written a superb critique of the b

IawnCont · 07/09/2012 08:34

She has made a lot of good points. But a lot of bad ones too, very damaging. As far as the book goes, I don't know- I think it would be good for women who feel their sexuality has been massively conditioned, but personally I'm okay with my vagina. We get on.

SuperB0F · 07/09/2012 08:34

book, in The New Yorker. I'd urge anyone who wants to understand why the whole thing is anti-feminist nonsense to read it here.

ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 07/09/2012 08:37

Haven't read the book, but from this webchat it seems to imply that men are giving women unhappy vagina sexy time in order to keep us down? Is this right?

Hullygully · 07/09/2012 08:56

suzanne moore in the grauniad yesterday summed it all up

BIWI · 07/09/2012 08:59

Oh yes, Hully.

pofacedalways · 07/09/2012 09:04

I LOVED the last line of Moore's piece. Made me wet myself a bit.

BIWI · 07/09/2012 09:07

I liked the last word especially! Grin

MySpanielHell · 07/09/2012 09:28

I cannot believe Ariel Levy managed to write that article without mocking the whole book outright; she was very restrained and professional in her comments. I've looked up Wolf's 'adviser' - the man who will stare at your vagina and see a vision of the Virgin Mary. It costs £200-300. He also does New Warrior Training for men, whatever that may be.