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Lines in books that make your throat catch

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pongping · 25/08/2013 08:50

Just been re-reading When We Were Very Young, and the lines in the last poem, Vespers, bring a tear to my eye every time:

Hush, hush, whisper who dares,
Christopher Robin is saying his prayers

I'm not sure why - I think it's the beauty of the innocence, the image of a lost world (the book is all nurses and stockings)?

In fact, just the title of the collection gives me a shiver.

OP posts:
grants1000 · 28/08/2013 21:04

waswondering - Puff the Magic Dragon, oh my!

In the 90's I lived and worked in London and went into Waterloo on the overground everyday and qued up for the 501 bus in a perfect single file queue and there were there two Irish buskers with a banjo who used the sing this perfectly, echoing along the tile tunnels walls and it made me cry everytime!

Papyrus02 · 28/08/2013 21:16

Che fece .... il gran rifiuto

To certain people there comes a day
when they must say the great Yes or the great No.
He who has the Yes ready within him
immediately reveals himself, and saying it he follows

his honor and his own conviction.
He who refuses does not repent. Should he be asked again,
he would say no again. And yet that no --
the right no -- crushes him for the rest of his life.

Constantine P. Cavafy (1901)

Papyrus02 · 28/08/2013 21:16

Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting?
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

© Mary Oliver

Papyrus02 · 28/08/2013 21:23

?I believe in aristocracy, though -- if that is the right word, and if a democrat may use it. Not an aristocracy of power, based upon rank and influence, but an aristocracy of the sensitive, the considerate and the plucky. Its members are to be found in all nations and classes, and all through the ages, and there is a secreat understanding between them when they meet. They represent the true human tradition, the one permanent victory of our queer race over cruelty and chaos. Thousands of them perish in obscurity, a few are great names. They are sensitive for others as well as themselves, they are considerate without being fussy, their pluck is not swankiness but power to endure, and they can take a joke.?

E.M. Forster, Two Cheers for Democracy

Hatescolds · 28/08/2013 21:32

i think someone has already mentioned Ruth Picardie and before i say goodbye. It was generally beautifully written but there was one bit which made me sob.
She is talking about her husband and how the wisteria won't make it as no one will remember to water it and cover the children up and then says that "life will go on without me ,it's just that I will miss it so."

Intastella · 28/08/2013 21:45

Thomas Hardy - The Walk

You did not walk with me
Of late to the hill-top tree
By the gated ways,
As in earlier days;
You were weak and lame,
So you never came,
And I went alone, and I did not mind,
Not thinking of you as left behind.

I walked up there to-day
Just in the former way;
Surveyed around
The familiar ground
By myself again:
What difference, then?
Only that underlying sense
Of the look of a room on returning thence.

And Feeder - Love Pollution, when he sings:

You pick the pieces up again
You're like the song that never ends
And you're the reason I wake up
And you're my vision
You're my touch...

Chubfuddler · 28/08/2013 21:52

I love Thomas Hardy's poems. The last line of after a journey made my eyes well up in a slightly embarrassing fashion in an English lesson the first time I read it

I am just the same as when our days were a joy and our path through flowers

And thoughts of phena

Not a line of her writing have I, not a lock of her hair

SOB

hemel07 · 28/08/2013 21:56

"The term is over, the holidays have begun; The night has ended; This is the morning"
The Last Battle.
C.S Lewis.

Notmyidea · 28/08/2013 21:58

don't know if it's been mentioned yet, but very near the end of Harry Potter there's the bit where he's in the great hall after the battle and finds he can't leave everyone even though he's beyond shattered. It somehow makes Christ more human and alive to me than any Bible study ever has. I was a bit of a Harry Potter obsessive at the time and stayed up all night to read it and got there as the sun was coming up. Of all the emotive stuff the book is full of that's the bit that got me.
I can't touch Peter Pan as an adult.
The "mother with a baby" in Peepo gets me, too.
Carver's "brief fragment" was read at the funeral of someone taken much too soon at her request. That gets me every time.
"she's my sister and I'm her brother. And we'll go on being that forever, even when we're grown-up."

CitrusyOne · 28/08/2013 22:06

If you leap awake in the mirror of a bad dream
And for a fraction of a second you can't remember where you are
Just open your window and follow your memory upstream
To the meadow in the mountain where we counted every falling star

I believe a light that shines on you will shine on you forever
And though I can't guarantee there's nothing scary hiding under your bed
I'm gonna stand guard like a postcard of a Golden Retriever
And never leave 'til I leave you with a sweet dream in your head

I'm gonna watch you shine
Gonna watch you grow
Gonna paint a sign
So you'll always know
As long as one and one is two
There could never be a father
Who loved his daughter more than I love you

Paul Simon song- it's at the end of some cartoon kids film-
Rugrats or something. It always made me cry because of how I love my dad, but I'm twice as bad now I have baby dd!

bellsandbutterflies · 28/08/2013 22:09

'I love my Dad and you know what? He loves me....and he always will.'

'My Dad' was a massive favourite with ds1 and I started to read it to him without thinking shortly after my own Dad died. DH had to take the book out of my hands and finish it for me. 8 years on, ds3 loves it and it still gets me sometimes.

ILovePonyo · 28/08/2013 22:15

Grants1000 that song reminds me of my dad, who died a year and a half ago. Funnily enough we also use to sing walk of life nice and loud when we were in the car!

Lovely but sad story about your grandad, I'm sorry.

ILovePonyo · 28/08/2013 22:16

Oh god bellsandbutterflies, just seen your post too! I hope I never have to read that book to dd... Sorry for your loss, it's tough isn't it.

Mumzy · 28/08/2013 22:29

?Be with me always - take any form - drive me mad! only do not leave me in this abyss, where I cannot find you! Oh, God! it is unutterable! I can not live without my life! I can not live without my soul!?
Heathcliffe, Wuthering Heights

Mumzy · 28/08/2013 22:31

?You are too generous to trifle with me. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once. My affections and wishes are unchanged; but one word from you will silence me on this subject for ever.?
― Darcy, Pride and Prejudice

PortBlacksandResident0 · 28/08/2013 22:33

The Age Of Not Believing From Bedknobs And Broomsticks

When you rush around in hopeless circles
Searching ev'rywhere for something true
You're at the age of not believing
When all the "make believe" is through

When you set aside your childhood heroes
And your dreams are lost up on a shelf
You're at the age of not believing
And worst of all you doubt yourself

You're a castaway where no one hears you
On a barren isle in a lonely sea
Where did all the happy endings go?
Where can all the good times be?

You must face the age of not believing
Doubting ev'rything you ever knew
Until at last you start believing
There's something wonderful...
Truly wonderful in you

PortBlacksandResident0 · 28/08/2013 22:35

Mrs Malone By Eleanor Farjeon

Mrs. Malone
Lived hard by a wood
All on her lonesome
As nobody should. With her crust on a plate
And her pot on the coal
And none but herself
To converse with, poor soul.
In a shawl and a hood She got sticks out-o?-door,
On a bit of old sacking
She slept on the floor,
And nobody, nobody
Asked how she fared Or knew how she managed,
For nobody cared.
Why make a pother
About an old crone?
What for should they bother
With Mrs. Malone?

One Monday in winter
With snow on the ground
So thick that a footstep
Fell without sound,
She heard a faint frostbitten
Peck on the pane
And went to the window
To listen again.
There sat a cock sparrow
Bedraggled and weak,
With half-open eyelid
And ice on his beak.
She threw up the sash
And she took the bird in,
And numbled and fumbled it
Under her chin.
'Ye?re all of a smother,
Ye?re fair overblown!
I?ve room fer another,'
Said Mrs. Malone.

Come Tuesday while eating
Her dry morning slice
With the sparrow a-picking
('Ain?t company nice!')
She heard on her doorpost
A curious scratch,
And there was a cat
With its claw on the latch.
It was hungry and thirsty
And thin as a lath,
It mewed and it mowed
On the slithery path.
She threw the door open
And warmed up some pap,
And huddled and cuddled it
In her old lap.
'There, there, little brother,
Ye poor skin-an?-bone,
There?s room fer another,'
Said Mrs. Malone.

Come Wednesday while all of them
Crouched on the mat
With a crumb for the sparrow,
A sip for the cat,
There was wailing and whining
Outside in the wood,
And there sat a vixen
With six of her brood.
She was haggard and ragged
And worn to shred,
And her half-dozen babies
Were only half-fed,
But Mrs. Malone, crying
'My! ain?t they sweet!'
Happed them and lapped them
And gave them to eat.
'You warm yerself, mother,
Ye?re cold as a stone!
There?s room fer another,'
Said Mrs. Malone.

Come Thursday a donkey
Stepped in off the road
With sores on his withers
From bearing a load.
Come Friday when icicles
Pierced the white air
Down from the mountainside
Lumbered a bear.
For each she had something,
If little, to give?
'Lord knows, the poor critters
Must all of ?em live.'
She gave them her sacking,
Her hood and her shawl,
Her loaf and her teapot?
She gave them her all.
'What with one thing and t?other
Me fambily?s grown,
And there?s room fer another,'
Said Mrs. Malone.

Come Saturday evening
When time was to sup
Mrs. Malone
Had forgot to sit up.
The cat said meeow,
And the sparrow said peep,
The vixen, she?s sleeping,
The bear, let her sleep.
On the back of the donkey
They bore her away,
Through trees and up mountains
Beyond night and day,
Till come Sunday morning
They brought her in state
Through the last cloudbank
As far as the Gate.
'Who is it,' asked Peter,
'You have with you there?'
And donkey and sparrow,
Cat, vixen and bear

Exclaimed, 'Do you tell us
Up here she?s unknown?
It?s our mother, God bless us!
It?s Mrs. Malone
Whose havings were few
And whose holding was small
And whose heart was so big
It had room for us all.'
Then Mrs. Malone
Of a sudden awoke,
She rubbed her two eyeballs
And anxiously spoke:
'Where am I, to goodness,
And what do I see?
My dears, let?s turn back,
This ain?t no place fer me!'
But Peter said, 'Mother
Go in to the Throne.
There?s room for another
One, Mrs. Malone.'

PortBlacksandResident0 · 28/08/2013 22:37

...and finally a dog one Sad

I explained to St. Peter that I'd rather stay here
Outside the pearly gate.
I won't be a nuisance, I won't even bark.
I'll be very patient and wait.
I'll be here, chewing on a celestial bone
No matter how long you may be.
I'd miss you so much if I went in alone
It wouldn't be heaven for me.

girliefriend · 28/08/2013 22:37

Oh God this this thread has turned me into a sobbing wreck Sad

I watched Stand by Me over the wend and the bit near the end where Gordy breaks down and sobs 'my dad hates me, he hates me'

and his friend puts his arm around him and says 'he doesn't know you'

Oh for goodness sake I have set myself off again!!

DesperatelySeekingSedatives · 28/08/2013 22:51

Not a book but a song "You are not alone, I am here with you...." only because it was played at a friend's funeral and the image of his mother having to be gently but firmly removed from his coffin before it was taken away to be cremated has haunted me since then. No other death including of much loved grandparents has haunted me as much as seeing this mother say a final farewell to her precious boy (could see her mouth those words).

annieapple7 · 28/08/2013 22:52

God I am all cried out. The most recent lines that made we weep, mentioned earlier, were in One Day when the main character dies suddenly and "everything she ever thought or felt was lost forever". I hadn't thought about death in that way before. And I'm so glad to have discovered the Bellatrix is 3 poem.

dietcokeandwine · 28/08/2013 22:58

Indirectly related to 'The Railway Chldren' but this is from Kate Atkinson's "Case Histories" (the original book, not the TV series), a case where the father, Theo, effectively devotes the rest of his life to solving the mystery of his daughter Laura's murder.

" 'My daddy's be back soon,' Marlee reassured him. 'My daddy.' The very words brought a lump to his throat. Laura's second favourite film, after Dirty Dancing, was The Railway Children and he'd bought a copy on video a couple of years before she died. They had watched it together several times and they both always cried at the end when the train stops and the steam and smoke slowly clear around Bobbie's father and Jenny Agutter (who always reminded him a little of Laura) cries out "Daddy, my daddy,", and it was odd because it was such a happy moment for Bobbie and yet it always seemed unbearably sad. Of course, he'd never watched the film since Laura's death, it would kill him to watch it. Theo never doubted for a moment that when he died he would be reunited with Laura and, in his mind, it was just like The Railway Children - he would walk out of a fog and Laura would be there and she would say "Daddy, my daddy". It wasn't that Theo believed in religion, or God, or an afterlife, he just knew it was impossible to feel this much love and for it to end.'

Reading this tore me to shreds both as a daughter and as a parent.

WhitePeacock · 28/08/2013 23:15

funnylittlefrog that Demeter poem does it for me too every time. I only have to see the cover of "The World's Wife" and I start pre-emptive lip-wobbles.

Also Ted Hughes:

"This is what the thunder said:
The dead are dead are dead are dead
Forever. They return to the pool of atoms."

and the bit in the Duchess of Malfi when the Duchess says "I pray thee, look thou giv'st my little boy/Some syrup for his cold..." when she knows she's about to be murdered.

kerala · 28/08/2013 23:25

Last paragraph of a small book called the bridge over San Louis ray. This stopped me in my tracks and was impressed a few months later when tony Blair read it at the sept 11 funerals

"But soon we will die,and all memories of those 5 will have left the earth, and we ourselves shall be loved for a while and forgotten. But the love will have been enough; all those impulses of love return to the love that made them. There is land of the living and a land of the dead and the bridge is love. The only survival, the only meaning."

simplesalad1 · 28/08/2013 23:29

I have been having a hard time with my daughter but strangely have been unable to cry about it as I think I am almost too sad. However reading all these quotes has made me cry, especially those that come from children's books, I want to go back to when she was little and we read them all together. The short children's book Read to your Bunny is one that always brings me near to tears. Also, the song Alone again naturally is a bit of a heart wrencher!