Little update:
We have transferred care. We had a very good meeting with the Consultant Midwife for Normality (!) last week. What a different experience! He had printed the guidelines for twins to give to me to read and spoken to the consultant and all the midwives that work in MLU in preparation for our visit. The outcome was basically that the main issues I am concerned about, I feel, will all be much better considered there.
He asked sensible questions about what I'd want or insist on in difficult circumstances and told me what he and the MLU/Obstetricians would be comfortable with and we worked out a good plan together. So, I am going to have Consultant led care with an MLU assessment then delivery with provision made for a transfer to CLU in certain situations.
We have agreed that if I am asking them to work outside the guidelines I will take responsibility for the outcome of the delivery and that we will not ask any individual to work outside their comfort zone.
So, we will go in at the very beginning of labour, be assessed in MLU have 30 mins of intial external monitoring so the midwives can be confident of having got a good trace on both babies. If everything is normal and they are confident of having got good readings for each baby then I can stay in MLU and have intermittent monitoring. If at any point the midwives are not confident about the intermittent monitoring I will go back to the external electronic monitor until they have a good trace then if they are confident again we can revert to the intermittent monitoring. If the midwives feel better about the electronic monitoring because there is not a big difference between the traces e.t.c. then we will stay on the monitor but I will be able to move around as much as I like and will be able to deliver in whatever position I feel comfortable.
They agree that monitoring the second twin after the first is born is the main issue and also agree that moving around in labour and different delivery positions with the first can help to optimally position the second and lessen the need for stabilisation. They have said they will offer me induction at 38 weeks but will allow me to go to 40+ weeks if I choose. If I am induced I will labour in CLU from the start.
They have agreed to help a vaginal delivery of the second twin if it is presenting frank or complete breech and I will consent to section (if necessary) if it is presenting footling breech or will not move from transverse. They are training the midwives on breech delivery and a number have already stated they would be comfortable in this situation. The Obstetrician would wish to lead a vaginal breech birth so if the CLU is too busy for a registrar to come down to MLU I will be happy to transfer there for the second delivery.
They have agreed to allow me to deliver the second twin without intervention providing they are happy with the trace from the monitoring.
I do not want an epidural but will be happy to have a line in and fast during labour should the anaesthetist/obstetrician prefer.
After the twins are born, if everything is fine, I will be transferred to the high risk postnatal ward but will take responsibility for their feeding myself and do not wish to have their feeding monitored. If everything is fine and I feel I would rather be at home they agree to release me soon after the delivery.
I feel much more relaxed just being able to have open communication!