I'm 19 weeks with DCDA twins and not sure what sort of delivery I should opt for. My first was a water birth in the midwife led birth centre, dim lights, hands off car, delivered him myself straight into my chest for skin to skin etc and obviously they won't let me have that again this time.
I don't like the idea of a spinal injection, being paralysed and recovering from surgery with two newborns and a toddler. But I'm also worried about needing forceps or even an EMCS having delivered one baby, if twin 2 isn't in a good position. I also don't like the idea of a really medicalised vaginal birth with bright lights, constant monitoring and a room full of people. They have already recommended getting an epidural "just in case" and I feel that this will lower the threshold for interventions massively and I may end up with an episiotomy and forceps just because they can, whereas with a single birth we might change positions etc.
The c section feels like a more controlled situation in some ways but isn't really what I want in a lot of other ways.