Hi all, We have 10-week old b/g twins (7 weeks corrected), who refuse to sleep in their cot. We started out with a next-to-me, but they outgrew that last week so we now have a cot bed with the third side down attached to my side of the bed. They are exclusively breastfed on demand, and we don't have them on a routine during the day (that's a whole other post, but also a vicious cycle with the lack of sleep), but they do go to bed consistently around 8.30pm. They feed, and then both get put in their cot. They'll initially settle, but wake up after around 20 minutes, and from there won't go any longer than that in the cot. I would be happy to co-bed (as a temporary solution), which works for one twin at a time, but I can only have one of them close enough to me to make any difference, so my husband ends up sitting up all night (sometimes quite literally) trying to settle the other one / sitting in bed with them awake while they sleep. We've tried white noise, changing temperature of the room, warming the cot mattress, putting in a muslin with my milk - so far nothing has worked. Over the past few days they have both (on different occasions) slept for four hours during the day (they usually also nap on me in a sling, but will occasionally sleep in the pram with some motion), so they are starting to be capable of going for longer stretches, just not in their cot. I'm open to sleep training them at some point, but assume it's rather early to be doing that. Any suggestions appreciated. Many thanks, Alice
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