[quote RosettaR]@nicole2398 I had this too, my twins are now 12 weeks old and healthy. I'm sure things have moved on with you so this post might not be useful any more but I still wanted to try to help.
Do you know why they suggested selective reduction? That's not normally necessary with sIUGR but it's possible there is some additional factor in your case that made it an option. In particular, do you know what type you are? The outcomes depend on the type, and the type is about the blood flow to the smaller twin. If blood flow is positive, outcomes are really good!
Are you being scanned at least weekly, with dopplers being done to check the blood flows? That's what should be happening but sometimes you have to fight for it.
Let me know if you have any more questions. There is a Facebook group called MoDi & MoMo Twins: Monochorionics. I'd recommend joining that, the admins on the group are really knowledgeable and can give you advice on any decisions, I found it really valuable.
Thinking of you and hope it goes well.[/quote]
Thank you for your reply , you see the twins were type 2 baby A had positive A wave and one of his EDF were absent causing the problem. The other twin was completely fine. Because the A wave was positive and he was growing just very slowly they had a small amount of hope for bows unfortunately
Within days he passed away in my womb and his brother had been thriving ever since and they now are checking his Dopplers every scan. All up to now (weekly at first then this week was 2 weeks) they have been so happy with his progress that I'm now going into 4 week checks. I'm now 22 weeks and am very scared of losing this boy too but he's doing soo well.