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Just been diagnosed with TTTS

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SmellySphinx · 11/10/2018 01:20

Hello x

I have twin boys, I'm 22+3 weeks and earlier today I was diagnosed with TTTS I don't know what stage but the notes I have don't make for good reading. One twin is surrounded by too much fluid and the other twin is 'adhered to the uterine wall' and bladder wasn't seen. I have had no signs or symptoms other then one side of my belly appeared a little larger and I mean a little bit, but it didn't appear to be all the time. Also pretty much as soon as I got 21 weeks, I was feeling quite a lot of pressure in my lower abdomen and under my rib. All pretty normal for pregnancy and especially twins I would have thought.

I already knew about ttts as of course as soon as I found out I was having mo/di twins I did all the reading (Googling) I could possibly do...well, you do don't you!

Everything was going excellently until I had my 22 week scan earlier today and the sonographer went quiet after she saw the heartbeats and didn't say much except for the fact there was more fluid around one baby (the donor) and that was pretty much it. I saw the consultant, a different consultant, each time I've seen a consultant it's never the same one. This is the 4th time and is actually the consultant I should have been seeing all along really...she explained it all and we had to go home and sit and wait for a call back as they were trying to sort an appointment for me at Birmingham Queens.

I was so distracted I booked the wrong date for the hotel which tried to charge a £65 cancellation fee Hmm which my husband luckily got them to cancel for nothing and we ended up in a different hotel.

So, one bus-train-taxi-takeaway later I'm sat in this 'lovely' hotel. Thankfully the people next door only had very noisy fun once so I don't have to listen to that all night long. My husband and toddler are asleep and well, I can't although I know I need to soon.

Appointment is at 10am tomorrow and I'm trying not to worry too much, I've just been googling medical papers and ttts stories which are a mixed bag of course.

I don't know why I've written it all out, I'm just so apprehensive...and tired :|

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Borris · 15/11/2018 11:06

I’ve been lurking smellysphinx but just have to delurk to wish you well. And of course your kids should be at the hospital so they can meet their new siblings. Especially if you don’t have a car and so dh can’t nip back to get them.

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SmellySphinx · 15/11/2018 11:12

Cheers Borris Xx all welcome haha
Yes I just cannot comprehend why anyone would say that? I'm having surgery, prem babies, we don't have access to instant transport and should something go drastically wrong...I don't even want to think about how stressful that would be for everyone especially the kids.

They can stuff their attendance targets up their arse, I couldn't give a toss right now!! We've had to deal with alsorts in the past 3 years, suicide, 3 deaths in the family. I just can't deal with people who know all this making idiotic suggestions. We've already explored the options to get them into school and sometimes it just cannot be done!

Sorry I will stop going on now because it really gives me the RAGE! Grin

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loopylou1984 · 15/11/2018 12:04

Agree whole heartedly that your children missing a day or 2 of school really doesn't matter, but, if you have anyone at all (even a friend) who could look after them until after you've had the babies I would definitely recommend it. Neonatal is a scary place when you first go in and see your babies hooked up to all sorts, and you need to get your head round it first so you can help reassure your children. If not then I still recommend you go first, leave them in the hospital cafe or something so you can focus just on the babies.

Thinking about it rationally now it wouldn't have been that bad. I could have stayed in a b&b near their hospital or my DH would have driven me before he went to work. At the time though, it was very stressful.

I looked at it as wishing for someone's baby to go home and freeing up a space, much nicer to think about!

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SmellySphinx · 15/11/2018 15:53

Oh yes absolutely, I will leave it a while and have to prepare them before hand as well as myself. I've been doing some researching on scbu seeing pictures and peoples videos of tiny babies in the cots and such. I really didn't want to go in and be shocked knowing nothing at all although I don't think there can be enough preperation in the World, nothing will be like the reality of it. What I can do, I have done so far.

Thank you for the heads up though, any information is well recieved honestly xxxx

My brother works in the NHS although not directly with neonatal he has had to liase with special care staff so he has been able to tell me bits and bobs about what to expect.

That's a great way to think about freeing up spaces in cots, I'm quite embarassed or ashamed even that I didn't even think to view it that way. It's definitely a positive way to look at it xx

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loopylou1984 · 15/11/2018 19:49

I can promise you that although it's really scary and daunting at first, and it's a place no one wants to be, neonatal is actually an amazing and very supportive place. My girls only had 3 weeks in there, but the staff feel like family.
You soon get used to the machines and routines. Changing a nappy in an incubator gets easier too I promise!

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RainbowsArePretty · 15/11/2018 20:42

Good luck Thanks

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SmellySphinx · 16/11/2018 12:27

Thank you Sammy and Rainbows :)

Had the scan this morning, the anemia is developing again of course and the MCA readings are on the rise/fall for the babies. The sonogropher gave me her mobile number and they have booked me in for another scan Sunday morning. Feeling more apprehensive now, evev more so than before!

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loopylou1984 · 17/11/2018 08:33

Sorry things seem to be going the wrong way. So glad you have such a wonderful sonographer. X

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loopylou1984 · 18/11/2018 08:05

Good luck today sphinx x

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BigBairyHollocks · 18/11/2018 08:23

Hi OP,just read your thread and wanted to wish you luck and say how very brave you seem.I will be keeping everything crossed for you and your babies.Flowers

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SmellySphinx · 18/11/2018 13:20

Just got back from the scan, again lol! The mca readings were slightly lower but the TTTS is back again, anemic babys fluid is reducing. I had ecg monitoring and those readings were fine eventually anyway, they were wriggling around so much it was very difficult to keep contact!
They said I could go back to the hospital later on for extra monitoring if I wish to.

Oh and the washing machine door hinges have just bent, snapped and fallen off LOL!!!! I don't even care anymore.


Bloody hell universe, want to throw anything else at me!?!?
DON'T ANSWER THAT PLEASE!! Grin

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SmellySphinx · 18/11/2018 13:27

Take THAT washing machine.

Bastard AngryGrin

Just been diagnosed with TTTS
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SmellySphinx · 18/11/2018 13:31

Haha thank you BigHairyHollocks!!

I don't know about bravery, I'm just going with the flow. There is literally nothing else to do 'cept go into melt down, that is not an option xx Grin

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SmellySphinx · 18/11/2018 13:35

Bairy* even Smile

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ellesbellesxxx · 18/11/2018 13:50

Just been reading your journey so far and I am
Keeping everything x for the coming weeks. My twins are fraternal so obviously we haven’t personally experienced any of this, all I know is from TAMBA publications and their site.
Wishing you lots of luck xxx

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RainbowsArePretty · 18/11/2018 13:52

You sound so strong Thanks

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loopylou1984 · 18/11/2018 19:59

So what is the plan now?

And sorry about the washing machine too.... just what you need.

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mummyhaschangedhername · 18/11/2018 20:17

So sorry you are going through this. Wishing you all the best OP.

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SmellySphinx · 19/11/2018 04:32

Plan is still the same Sammy xx

Booking at St Marys late afternoon then the fun starts.

Magnesium drip for 4 hours, chat with the anesthetist, starved at 10:30. That time isn't set in stone, as far as I'm aware from then on it's wait and see time as to when they're going to perform the c-section for Tuesday and where it will be in relation to cot availability.

When I got home yesterday afternoon I was a little on edge as the babies movements, notably twin 1s, were softer and not as vigorous. It was anemic baby who was worrying me the most as the deepest fluid pocket was noted as 1.7mm (oligohydramnios -very low fluid). I had to weigh this up with a sensible head as twin 1s fluid wasn't noted as polyhydramnios. Their levels have fluctuated and 2's decreasing BUT twin 2's levels have gone up and down at different scans... I spent a good few hours trying different positions and drank water regularly to stay hydrated and hopefully to up the fluid level. Not hugely proven to change things but it could help and won't do any harm...

I suspected that he had changed position as they've done regularly and that was causing the softer movements, plus anterior placenta. I kept checking the heart rates because I know what's normal for them both. 1 is 130-135 and 2 is around 140+.

I decided not to go back for more monitoring as I noted enough soft/hard movements to keep me satisfied it was nothing more than different positions.

Obviously I have to say that if anyone else happens to read this experiencing the same issues that none of this was recommended to me, it's what I chose to do considering previous experiences and I had already had a scan and been monitered. They were moving, hearts beating etc...all individual to me and my circumstances. Plus I am booking in tomorrow anyway.

I just woke up randomly at 3:30 and here I am lol, babies are wriggling.

If I become concerned again later on this morning I won't hesitate to go back to my local hospital for more monitoring, best to keep an eye on things.

Oh washing machine is years old and has been good to us. It was already here when we moved in and Landlord said use it but if it buggers up or leaks then we're responsible for it. I had already bought a replacement catch for the door years ago when that snapped so it's done its job Grin Could have picked a better bloody time to break though!!!! No matter, at this point I'm not sodding bothered in the grand scheme. We'll have to use a laundrette if things get desperate and whack a cheap new one on the credit card.

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SmellySphinx · 19/11/2018 14:09

Oh.My.God.

I've got a cold now, literally TODAY it decides to start.

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SmellySphinx · 19/11/2018 14:12

You know those people who have the incredible misfortune to get struck by lightening more than once in a lifetime? I can relate to them right now!! Hmm

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SmellySphinx · 19/11/2018 14:14

Oh and thank you to everyone wishing us well, I have read your replies sorry if it seems I'm being ignorant xx

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comradelouise · 19/11/2018 21:41

Good luck for today/tomorrow Smelly!

Been off having a bit of my own pregnancy drama, so sorry that this is a bit out of date now, but I was thinking, the teacher was probably just trying to be helpful suggesting your daughter stay in the school in the spirit of offering you some free babysitting? But totally agree that's not what's right for her!

And also just to say that you might know this already but just in case you don't... if you give birth in one hospital that doesn't mean the new arrivals need to stay there. My daughter was born in Woolwich because King's (my local hospital) didn't have a spare cot in the NICU. So we had a 2 hour bus journey each way every day, and so we requested to move back to King's as soon as they had space, which they did for us after 10 days.

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loopylou1984 · 20/11/2018 10:22

Thinking of you today xx

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loopylou1984 · 20/11/2018 19:21

Hope everything's okay. X

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