Hiya WatsonandCrick, HUGE CONGRATULATIONS I remember when I found out that I was pregnant with triplets. The SHOCK!!
It is sooo normal to feel terrified, but once it sinks in, you will start to become oh-so-excited! I have to tell you that it has been a fantastic journey, incredibly hard at times, but immensely rewarding. I carried until 35+2 weeks, and my babies spent 2 wks in the NICU, and are wonderful now toddlers.
As for the pregnancy, you just have to understand that you will spend a portion of your pregnancy on bedrest, there is a high chance that your babies will be in the NICU for a period of time, and just accept that things will be different...but that everything will work out okay.
Everybodies pregnancies and children are different, for me, my pregnancy was ok, I didn't have any bedrest and the babies were born quite healthy. Having them in NICU was the hardest thing of all I think, but it's been worth every second Do you have a doctor that you feel comfortable with? That makes a world of difference.
I know how terrifying it is. I felt the same way. It certainly helps to have someone to talk to, so if there is anyone you know, that always helps. You also have the benefit of chatting with mumsnet members. Sometimes I felt like the only person going through what I did, but I quickly found that I'm not alone.
I don't know what to say if you are really hating the pregnancy, but try to think of the rewards at the end
Sometimes they do all cry at the same time....but you will become used to it, and figure out ways to cope.
I learned to feed two at a time, and the third was in a swing while I fed the other two, and so I learned ways so that I didn't have three crying out at one time. Some triplet moms even feed three at one time!
Don't worry about loving your babies equally, you just do! Love isn't something that divides, it only grows (now that sounds corny doesn't it!)
Are you a first time mum? I was when I had my triplets...Are you single? Sending you my best wishes xx