This is my first post, sorry I'm not up-to-speed with MN-speak...
Congratulations - you are so lucky to be having twins! Ours b/g twins are coming up to 12 weeks now and have both slept 7pm-7am for ten nights on the trot, so I am probably just elated at having had so much sleep! It's like crack! Their naps don't seem to last very long during the day now, but I never thought the sleeping at night would get so much better so soon.
I had them bang on 38 weeks. Both were head down and I was encouraged to have a vd. My foundation trust were quite flexible and they let me choose a C-sec. My husband (and I) were very worried about something going wrong, even though I'd been lucky and had a very easy pregnancy (not even any morning sickness) and wanted to control as many variables as possible, so I chose to have a C-section.
I worked full-time (even 21 days without at day off during the riots last summer - at around 26-30 weeks I think) up until 34 weeks, and started a new job on promotion at 30 weeks.
The C-Sec was fine, weirdly laid-back. I had some strange feelings in the weeks just afterwards about feeling I hadn't done 'the work' to deserve the babies, but I feel like I'm doing it now, so have got over that! DT1 was 6lb9 and DT2 was 6lb1 - we went home two nights later. The day after I was agony, laughing or coughing really hurt for about five days. After a week I felt much better and after three weeks I felt almost back to normal.
The whole bf vs ff thing came as a big surprise, I always knew it was a big issue but hadn't thought I would be bothered by it. I've got very inverted nipples and knew it was always going to be hard to try to breastfeed. It didn't work. I expressed for 7 weeks, but then I needed to get back on the caffeine to keep going! I was surprised by how emotional I was about it - especially when people said things like 'at least they are getting some', when I tried to make it 'sound better' by explaining that although I was ff, I was also giving them expressed breast milk. Then I felt a bit stronger and thought, 'Why am I justifying myself to some random woman in a Starbucks????? Who doesn't even have twins????'
You are in for such a journey. I made myself take each day of the pregnancy as it came and didn't really let myself think too much about the future, which was a bit weird looking back. We were just terrified that something would happen to them as several friends and extended family have been desperately sadly bereaved.
I feel so luck to have two lovely, healthy babies and wish you all the very best for the future.
Sorry for the long post - this is the first time I've written any of this down, and it all just kind of came out... sorry!