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Furious!

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mixedraceparents · 24/02/2010 17:24

Help!

I think I have mentiond before my (mixed race) son is at a school that is 95% bangladeshi. There are no white/african or mixed race people in his class. He has been called nig head as a result of which I had to relax his hair. He gets attacked alot, apparently the year 3 boys like proving they are hard by picking on him. No he's not perfect but he is highly intelligent and better hes a fabulous son who helps me with the little ones and is funny and kind. I am really angry that AS USUAL I tried to call his teacher this afternoon only to find her too busy to call me. This has happened lots of times. He hates his school, from being a year or more ahead at the end of the first year now he shows no interest in learning. I want him moved but the local schools are oversubscribed. When I called admissions to complain they all they could do was get social workers to investigate. I made a complaint before on another matter and after a month of intimidation decided to drop it, after which the intimidation magically disappeared. The only option I have is to move and I think it's really DISGUSTING that a school can ignore the needs of their pupils in such a manner.

They did do a lesson on Africa from which my son gleaned that Africans live in huts and don't have phones, which his furious father set him straight on.

Any suggestions on which way forward? I am getting no help at all here from the people who are paid to help. He's been on waiting lists for the local schools for a couple of years but they are all full or so they say.

I am getting really upset now.

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MUM2BLESS · 05/11/2010 16:30

I am really please for you both.

All the best with the future!!!

dina75 · 12/06/2011 15:52

I think this is shocking - your son is the victim of Hate Crime and this should be logged as such with the police. He sounds like an extremely wonderful son and I hope these nasty racist bullies get theirs. There is a belief in some areas of society that non-whites cannot be racist, which is ridicualous. The schools inaction & failure to protect your son in this case suggests to me they are not only lax but promoting such cruel behaviour and I think they are accessories to hate crime. I believe in zero tolerance when it come to instances like this - take it all the way! However, I understand your temptation to move schools (in your case I think I would be feeing the same way)

Mabelface · 12/06/2011 16:04

Dina, look at the date. This is ancient and also resolved.

dina75 · 12/06/2011 16:07

I know, but needed to vent - it made my blood boil. I'll remove it my post if it makes you happier?

Mabelface · 12/06/2011 16:08

No skin off my nose, just thought I'd point it out in case you'd not realised. :)

dina75 · 12/06/2011 16:11

Thanks - still getting to grips with things on here, can't believe how helpful all the people are. :)

Mabelface · 12/06/2011 16:14

Generally, they are. I tend to work by clicking on Active discussions. If I want to go back, I click on I'm On. Works for me. :)

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