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Multicultural families

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Terminology

56 replies

Uhu · 01/11/2004 12:57

How do you feel about the term "half-caste"? Personally, I hate it because I associate it with apartheid in South Africa. I prefer to use the term mix-race for my twin DS and when people call them half-caste, I always correct them. Am I being pedantic?

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toky · 01/11/2004 13:03

Agree agree agree. Not pedantic at all - very important to get these things right. I think most dictionaries now list 'half caste' as an offensive term.

hester · 01/11/2004 13:06

I think half-caste is a horrid term, Uhu, and I would never use it.

JoolsToo · 01/11/2004 13:06

thats where the rest of us are struggling - how are we supposed to know whats offensive? some words that weren't considered offensive years ago are now - its confusing! the goalposts keep changing!

suzywong · 01/11/2004 13:06

What happened to multi-cultural families as a topic title

Did I miss something? I thought that was the one most people preferred

JoolsToo · 01/11/2004 13:06

by the way I say 'mixed-race'!

sallystrawberry · 01/11/2004 13:07

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JoolsToo · 01/11/2004 13:08

suzywong - you've got a point there - its a bit exclusive that title - I'm not from a multiracial family - except that most Brits are mongrels I suppose

motherinferior · 01/11/2004 13:08

Mind you, hyphen or no hyphen? I spent ages trying to get the right line out of the CRE a while back (for work, incidentally, not out of sheer pedantic cussedness) with zero result. In the end I went hyphen-less, but it's all rather less clear than the disability field.

suzywong · 01/11/2004 13:17

I have been know to use the term HC to show up people who are faffing and stammering over using it themselves as in "so are you kids .. erm ..erm...."

Seriously can we have mutlicultural instead of multiracial, it is very exclusive, I mean a lot of MNers are families of different nationalites and they have issues that could be usefully discussed here

Amai · 01/11/2004 13:22

I agree half-caste sounds derogatory and find the english use this term often. Coloured is what we said when I was younger (white raised in Zambia) but in america this applies any person of colour. I think mixed race is the best term as it is less ambiguous.

Caligula · 01/11/2004 13:23

I think half-caste sounds hopelessly outdated and old-fashioned now, but mixed race is awful as well, because the whole world is mixed race. I don't like it because it implies there's such a thing as a "pure" race, for want of a better term.

I use mixed race as well though, because there isn't a non-offensive alternative that I know of!

sallystrawberry · 01/11/2004 13:32

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jampot · 01/11/2004 13:32

Although I have known for a while that half caste and coloured are deemed offensive, im not sure I knew when they became offensive IYKWIM. Am I right in thinking "black" is appropriate now - having said that I dont know any black people, just lovely chocolately ones

yingers74 · 01/11/2004 13:33

When people ask about my dd, I always just say she is mixed and I wait as I know they will ask either 'are you the nanny' or 'she doesn't look like you at all' then i normally explain that I am chinese and her dad is english (although if you go back much further, his dad side of the family is from turkey and mums from france/swiss) and yes apart from her eye colouring, she takes after her dad completely.

Justine (mumsnet) · 01/11/2004 13:40

Sorry about multiracial/ multicultural - my mistake. All fixed now.

KateandtheGirls · 01/11/2004 13:44

In America the correct term is "African American" for people of colour, but I don't know what it is in England.

Zinger · 01/11/2004 13:48

Black British is popular.

suzywong · 01/11/2004 13:48

thanks Justine, you are very quick off the mark I must say

suzywong · 01/11/2004 13:53

We say Eurasian, here in Australia Asian=Oriental

Caligula · 01/11/2004 13:56

Whereas in Britain, Asian used to imply Oriental, but it is now more commonly used to describe India sub-continental.

KatieMac · 01/11/2004 13:56

My DH calls our DD 'Pickney' (spelt wrong)
But at college I was told this is a derogatory term for a slave child....
Surely he can call his DD what ever he wants
Or can't he - is it offensive?
I might object if someone else called her it

Caligula · 01/11/2004 13:59

Pickaninny was definitely a derogatory term thirty years ago, but I think it's become ironic now.

I remember reading a book in the seventies with "pickaninnies" in it, but it was an old book then, and when I asked my teacher what it meant, she had a fit with the librarian for stocking the book!

KateandtheGirls · 01/11/2004 13:59

In the US, Asian is usually taken to mean "Oriental", and Oriental is considered offensive.

Caligula · 01/11/2004 14:01

That's interesting Kate. Is Oriental now considered offensive in Britain, anyone?

Poshpaws · 01/11/2004 14:01

Katiemac, I never knew that this term was offensive. My mum and her friends use it. My friends and I use it (depending on who we are talking with and we are all Black British)

It's not a term that I have taught DH yet though