Pressure from inlaws and husband to have a child

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Hi all

I just wanted to have a discussion with those who may have gone / are going through something similar to me just now

I have been brought up with two different cultures
I my partner has been brought up in an Asian/Pakistani culture

In this culture the pressure is intense to have children soon as you're married

I am currently going through that pressure but from my partner

I am currently at uni and have 2 years still to go...

I just wanted to see how you handle this pressure from inlaws/husband/partners and family

Thanks
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Surely you've discussed it with your husband.
Always make sure you're in charge of contraception. Tell them you've already committed to uni and will look at a baby after you've started your career.
If you're getting grief from his family, tell your dh to set them straight.