The cultural issues between me and my DH are quite enormous, but we've worked through a lot and things have been easier with DS2 and DS1 as we've resolved a lot of differences in child rearing styles already!
But there is something I struggle with and I'm interested if it's just my husband or due to culture. He can be quite unpleasant in the things he says, about other people and sometimes towards me. When I take that away and look at what he actually DOES it's a different picture. He's kind, generous, and quite fun. When I've pulled him up on it, he says its normal in his country to speak like this and doesn't mean anything.
Anyone have a similar experience?