A couple of years ago I received some good advice here and was advised to use an online site that helped you work out income and outgoings and the end reult produced a letter you could send off to the people you owed money to, telling them what you could afford to pay - reduce the repayments iyswim.
The site was very good to use, the problem is I can't for the life of me recall the name of it. I'd like to pass this on to a friend of mine who has big problems, so I was hoping that someone here would know what I'm talking about and know the name of the site?
Also, does anyone know if a wife can sort out her debt without her DH finding out? So far, any 'solutions' she has come across involve her dh being informed.