I see both sides to this argument but I also see a fact that is not going to go away however much we want it to.
Unless our kids receive large inheritances from their elderly relatives, then they are not going to be able to get onto the property ladder and as a consequence, they are not going to be able to put enough away to fund their retirement unless we, the parents, sell off our property to help them out.
The generation before me went to university and paid nothing. Not only that, they received housing benefit, unemployment benefit during the holidays and generous grants. I was caught by the beginning of loans but luckily no fees and yet I owed around 15k when I graduated. Today's children, whose parents have not provided for them, despite knowing the problems they would face, will graduate owing over £50,000 and that sum will only increase.
So when they get a job, they will have to pay rent, pay back their overdrafts, pay off their student loans, try to save for a deposit on a property and contribute to a pension. I am sorry but unless they earn £100k plus in today's money then it cannot be done.
My daughter is nearly 3 years old. If she wanted to study medicine in the UK as an overseas student, the cost is about £1.2m for the 8 years starting in 16 years time when she is 19 years old. That is tuition fees, rental of a flat and subsistence expenses.
My putting my head in the sand and barking about how it is not right and how I will not pay it or just pretending it is not there will not make it go away. There is no way to avoid the fact that our children will face financial hurdles which they cannot overcome without our almost lifetime help.