Hi, not good relationship with step mum but over the years i have tried for sake of my kids.just been informed my dad is in early stages of alzheimers and step mum says i will receive forms from her solicitors soon to tell me her son has been made poa for my dad.my dad never liked her son and a few years ago confided in me that he borrowed 7k and never paid my dad back a penny.dad lives miles away from me and step mum says they are moving to scotland where her son is as my dad will get free care when he goes into a home,i am waiting on the forms but wondered if anyone had any advise.my dad is a lovely but timid man who has worked hard all his life and always been very careful about money.this just feels wrong.any advise would be great thanks