We were in arrears on the CT. I filled in an income and expenditure form, for what is was worth, they plucked £150 out of the air as a sum we could pay.
I paid it a couple of months but things were very tight.
I went in to pay last month to be stopped at the desk and informed there was no need as an attachment of earnings had been put on DHs wages. We knew nothing about this, no letter or anything, and was told they didn't have to tell us.
Eyes start pricking as preg. hormones kick in, I ask to speak to someone to explain to me how it works. Am steered towards a very publicly positioned CT telephone in the middle of the council offices, right under a tannoy, to speak to a CT advisor. Lady very nice, says they will deduct 12% of DHs take home, which worked out about the same as what they wanted anyway.
Ok I thought - same amount - saves me the trip with the kids in to pay it.
DH was paid on Friday, went to cashpoint as DS1 needs some more school sweaters, thought the balance looked a bit low - maybe DH had taken some out for shopping we were going to do, petrol, couple of very unextravagant (sp?) presents we were going to get for kids for Xmas. Seems no - he had taken about £20 out.
He has gone into work this morn. and rung me as soon as he had arrived to tell me his pay slip was waiting and they took £206.89. He had worked his socks of making himself ill to get some extra money to buy the kids presents and they have taken all this plus more, eating into his basic amount.
From here on in, we don't have enough to pay basic living expenses. The normal direct debits etc won't be met.
This now means we have some shopping we did last night but that will be it for month - will last about 2 weeks, possibly enough to pay the mortgage and rent but nothing much else. What if we run out of food? DH is diabetic - I need to have good food here for him and I can't run out! What do I send in DS1s lunchbox? What do I eat - I'm preg.?
We are goin to have to forget the kids presents, DSs sweaters, DS2 will have to stop goin to pre-school (he is 3 and so ready, he misses going to school next year by 10 days, but is not funded in preschool until January - I already owe them £68 so will have to nip this in the bud before it gets out of hand), extra 'nice' Xmas food, DH and I were goin to get each other a little present - I was goin to get his chain I bought him for Valentines a few years back repaired and re-give it to him , I need a new tyre and inner tube for the pushchair. Little things.
I am so upset I am sobbing. I can't see any light at the end of the tunnel.
I am so sorry - I need to talk to someone. I don't know what to do, hopefully someone knows what I can do because I don't.
I am letting my kids down.