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Acting as a rent guarantor for DH's brother--very bad idea?

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YanknCock · 10/08/2009 13:26

DH got a call from his brother today, asking if we could be guarantor for their rent, since BIL and SIL are both not working. I can understand them coming to us because it has to be someone working (DH has a good job, I am on maternity leave from mine). DH's parents are retired, so cannot be guarantors. SIL's mum is on benefits, and her dad's company is going out of business, so soon he won't be working either. Basically there is no one else to ask.

However....DH and I are both more than a little nervous about this. If something did go wrong, we cannot financially afford to cover their rent, not even for a month. We have our own mortgage, overdrafts, and bills, and though we are slowly clawing our way out of debt, we are still living paycheque to paycheque.

BIL and SIL seem to think this isn't a big deal, that it's as simple as sticking DH's name on. I think it involves credit checks, which we'd rather not have as there were loads in the last 8 months when we bought our house. I'm not even sure DH could be accepted as a guarantor anyway--surely he'd have to prove he could cover their rent, and a credit check would reveal we simply can't!

Anyone been a guarantor and know how it works? Would like to have all the information before we most likely have to say 'No' and have them get all pissed off with us.

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expatinscotland · 10/08/2009 21:51

Then far better you didn't get sucked into all this.

WTF?

Second floor flat with just the one isn't the end of the world.

My knees are shot to all hell. I've had four surgeries and managed it. Hell, I walked down those stairs and I was probably about 8cm dilated because when I got to hozzie about 20 mins. later there was just a lip of cervix in the road and I had DD2.

We'll likely be on 2nd floor again. I'm begging the HA tomorrow.

I'll get a baby carrier second hand and go up and down those stairs at least 6x/day with one in nursery and one in school and I reckon I'm much closer to 40 than this gal!

Some people don't know they're born!

You're well-rid of this.

expatinscotland · 10/08/2009 21:52

Then far better you didn't get sucked into all this.

WTF?

Second floor flat with just the one isn't the end of the world.

My knees are shot to all hell. I've had four surgeries and managed it. Hell, I walked down those stairs and I was probably about 8cm dilated because when I got to hozzie about 20 mins. later there was just a lip of cervix in the road and I had DD2.

We'll likely be on 2nd floor again. I'm begging the HA tomorrow.

I'll get a baby carrier second hand and go up and down those stairs at least 6x/day with one in nursery and one in school and I reckon I'm much closer to 40 than this gal!

Some people don't know they're born!

You're well-rid of this.

expatinscotland · 10/08/2009 21:52

sorry for double post

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