My ex-partner and I co-own a business. I own 49% and he owns 51%.
We separated 18 months ago and, for a number of reasons - including him spending so much money since that I couldn't take my share out of the business without it going under - it is taking a long time to divide our finances. We're now getting closer to resolving this, but have stumbled on a particular point.
We agreed to split the balance sheet value as at the time we separated, 49:51. We also agreed to add "good will" to the value of my shares, plus half of net profits since, and for the business (in effect my ex) to buy me out.
I continued to receive dividends over the last 18 months, as we tried to agree a way forward.
My ex's most recent calculations deduct my dividends since our separation from my 49% of the balance sheet value at the time we separated - reducing my overall investment by about a quarter. I had no idea that, according to him, I have effectively been living off my capital for the past 18 months; I thought I was living off the return of my continuing investment. He says it is quite right that my dividends have eroded my half of the balance sheet value because taking money out of a business reduces its value. Several of my friends have suggested otherwise: that dividends are effectively a reward paid for your investment - they do not erode your investment. For as long as someone is a shareholder, they own their original share (which fluctuates in value), and are paid dividends for having - not from - this share. My ex refuses to entertain this reasoning.
I'm confused. Who's right?
Thanks.