We are hoping to buy a house from a friend. We have known the family for five years, and have known that their house is for sale for two years. The only way we can afford it is because it is a private sale so the owner will be saving on estate agency fees, and therefore is prepared to drop his price. Now one of the local agencies is saying that he will have to pay fees as they have e-mailed the details to us a month ago, even though we are familiar with the house and started to talk about buying it a long time ago. We have never viewed the property through them or even discussed it with them. I understand that some contracts say that fees are payable if a buyer finds out that a property is for sale because of an e'mail, but we clearly are aware that the house is on the market through our friendship, and prior to the e-mail. The owner is refusing to sell to us unless either the agent changes their minds or we cover his fees, which we can't afford. We think the agent is in the wrong. Can anyone help?