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Just had my divorce petetion through, can anyone tell me why I have to swear on oath when H has admitted adultery?

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dilemma01 · 07/03/2009 21:58

Seems odd

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dilemma01 · 07/03/2009 21:59

Though that might not be what I am swearing on oath for, the letter does'nt really explain.

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piratecat · 07/03/2009 22:01

i remember going into a local soliciter and having to do this. i actually had to put my hand on the bible, most upsetting, i didn't know i had to do this till i got there.

Same situation, my dh left me.

I guess it's a formality, but i wept.

dilemma01 · 07/03/2009 22:03

Oh no, I had to do this when I went bankrupt, thanks to H, and I have this terrible problem of laughing at the most unfunny and inconvienent times, og no oh no

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beanieb · 07/03/2009 22:07

this says "An individual who does not profess to hold any religious belief, or does not wish to swear by their religious beliefs may make an affirmation, reciting the words 'I do solemnly, sincerely and truly declare and affirm that...'

The 'affirmation' is not technically an oath, as there is no appeal to a sacred witness, however, the practical purpose is the same and it holds the same status under law."

not sure if this applies to everything, i.e not just in court.

dilemma01 · 07/03/2009 22:13

Thanks beanieb, that interesting.

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usernamechanged345 · 07/03/2009 22:17

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controlfreakythecontrolfreak · 07/03/2009 22:21

like mrs p says!

dilemma01 · 08/03/2009 08:32

Hi, yes I have a solicitor acting for me, I think I will go there and pay £7, as even though the court do it for free, it will cost me that much in petrol and parking as its in the next town, thanks for the info

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lalalonglegs · 08/03/2009 08:56

Is it a hangover from the time when couples who wanted to divorce quickly could only cite adultery and therefore used to pretend that one of them, usually the man, had had an affair? By swearing an oath it meant that neither of them could - theoretically - say that they had made it up and the divorce was invalid if they then changed their mind.

babybarrister · 08/03/2009 20:24

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mumoverseas · 10/03/2009 14:23

"sworn before an independant solicitor" god I've not heard that phrase for a long time and remember how it used to be rammed down our throats by a law lecturer who was obsessed about getting that point across

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