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HELP HELP HELP advice needed re bullying relocated council tenant being aggresive to relative...

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flooredandgored · 30/12/2008 20:28

... i've namechanged for this in the unlikely event anyone from RL identifies me from posts on my usual mn name.

this might be a bit of a rambling post but bear with me and if anyone can give advice, hints or tips, or knows some one who works in council houssing or police and you could ask them for advice and come back to me and update th thread i would be massively grateful.

Basically, my mum has owned her property for ages, but attached are council properties. most of the residents in the near area are oldies and they are all generally friendly etc .. however the neighbouring house to my mum has got a ldy in it for a few months who is, without wanting to offend anyone with the erminology, a loon, but a nasty one.

the woman seemed a bit odd walking straight into peoples houses asking for cigarettes or tapping bits of food off them and starting conversations with them when seeing them but swearing really loudly. mum just sort of didn't really have anything to do with her, and that was fuine. then there was some paper that had been lit found jarred in the letterbox, no onwe has witnessed anything, but as the lady has a drink issues (she has been seen very drunk a lot of occasions) we suspect she has done this, but then my mums lovely neighbours who are jamaican told her the woman had been really aggresive screaming at them and shouting and swearing at their two sons on their way back from school(they are eight and ten!) and suspect in sa drunken stupour the lady may have got the wring intended door with the lit paper (yes, i know all assumptions, but it seems t o fit), garden ornaments and plant posts emptied and smashed in both my mums and neighbours gardens (there was a witness who saw the new neighbour do this)

now the lady is turning her stereo or tv n full volume (and i mean full volume, not just loud) as late as 1am so my mum can't sleep, and followed my bil and his elderly mum who had gone to visit my mum on christme=as day down the shared path (walking about 1 foot behind them barefoot, smoking and very very drunk) muttering to them and then shouting something at them when they got in their car (they didn't respond to her becaiuse they didn't want to aggrevate her)

the thing is, we've been advised that the lady is a known alchoholic who has been relocated from a previous area and has mental health issues, we have been specifically tolod not to approach her or have words with her unless strictly neccessary and to make sure we have an exit 9!) because she can be volatile and aggressive (she is a bg stocky lady), i can't put who gave us this inofo but the person has done us a huge favour telling us this and they are in a position to know of these details.

so, we've been onto the council, kept them updaed of all incidents (lady couldn't recollect pushing any lit paper in a letterbox so police couldn't take any action), council say they don't do relocatios, police suggested an injuction but what good is that when trhe person's behaviour and mental state is such that an injuction won't mean anything to her?

how do we get this person moved urgently as she is posing a serious threat to my mum? incidentally, my mum wants to move now

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PuzzleRocks · 30/12/2008 21:08

Bumping for you. You have my sympathies.

CarGirl · 30/12/2008 21:12

Presumably if you get an injunction and then she breaks it they can then do something about it? Perhaps it means she will either be sectioned or rehoused because of breaking it?

Ask the police what is the procedure when someone violates an injunction.

jaq39 · 30/12/2008 22:24

thats awful, cant suggest anything but bumping for you

laidbackinamangernocribforabed · 30/12/2008 22:27

Most Police forces have an anti-social behaviour worker/team connected to them, could you contact them to see if they can help ?. It sounds like at the very least, the neighbour needs a lot more support to maintain her tenancy, maybe your local council/housing association have a tenancy support worker too ?

deste · 30/12/2008 22:50

There is an alcoholic in our town who is notorious for annoying neighbours. She has been given an ASBO.

inlawoutlaw · 31/12/2008 01:19

Oh dear.
Requesting a meeting with a senior council housing officer might be a start , all councils have policys on anti social behaviour , ask to see it and find out what can be done.
Often new tenants have a probation period and should they behave badly they can be evicted.

I really wouldnt even try to discuss it with the council over the phone.
Also you might have more joy if you meet with the community police officer.There are various ways to resolve antisocial behaviour so dont be fobbed off .

Would also be worth making a complaint to the enviromental health about the noise from the tv, most areas take this very seriously now.
Good luck, it sounds dreadfull.

SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 31/12/2008 01:24

Advise your mum to get the other neighbours on side and have all keep diaries documenting her behavior. They need to see the local ASB officer at the police station about this.

They should be able to offer her help with her mental health issues and give her a keyworker/medication.

Also contact CAB for further legal advice.

hth.

flooredandgored · 02/01/2009 20:57

thanks everyone, we had a meeting today with aconcil officer, they told us to keep collating, were getting in touv=ch with council / mental health officer.. but no quick fix soluions yet, thanks for all your posts, though

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