Brother and I are executors and beneficiaries of our father's will. My 3 DCs inherit a set figure to be divided equally. Rest of the estate which includes a property, is shared between brother and myself.
My brother behaved very badly after our mother died. He did not execute the will properly and said and did things which upset my father and I greatly. My brother distanced himself for nearly 5 years and only reappeared 2 weeks before our father died.
As this is not a great time to sell property I would like to suggest that as the childrens' legacy equates to around half the value of the property I could effectively buy my brother's interest with their share. I would then redevelop the place and sell it when the market picks up. I would, of course, protect their investment and ensure they get a proportional return.
I know it's complicated but I cannot bear the thought of being tied to my brother in any sort of business arrangement, eg keeping the property and letting it out as joint owners. The alternative is selling to a third party which I do not want to do for financial and emotional reasons. I would never sell to him even if he offered me £10million which I know is not a financially sound response, purely emotional!
My DCs are aged 7, 19 and 21 and their inheritance stays in trust until they are 21 which may or may not complicate matters.