My grandma has just died and we have been soring though her papers.
She sold her house about 25 years ago and gave all her money to away to a strange cult in India. She has then lived in rented accomodation and then council housing ever since. Over the last ten years since having a stroke we have been watching her slowly deteriate into dementia and sink into poverty. We found out last year that she had been falling prey to all sorts of con artists and for that reason had sold most of her furniture, was chopping some of it up to provide fuel for her fire and when that ran out she was sat in a freezing house not eating very much. We started giving her money to top up her pension but there was little improvement.
Going through her papers we can see just how bad things are, for about 5 years she ahs been borrowing heavily from the bank and lst year took out a final loan for £15K. I just don't understand why anyone , never mind a bank would lend this to a woman who had not worked for over 20 years, had no assets, no life insurance and was in and out of hospital facing death. I can accept that if the application was done by post they would not have noticed her mental deterioratio but if they had even spoken to her the mental deterioration would have been clear.