DH and I are aware we need to update our Wills to reflect our family's situation. At the moment, we have got some old friends as guardians to our DDs, estate is divided up between them but in trust until a certain age but trustees can OK expenditure for education. Eldest DD is almost 17 but is very ill and will not be pursuing education for some time. If she was well she could be more or less independent but will not be able to for the foreseeable future. Youngest DD has learning difficulties and can be difficult to deal with. We do not really feel that our friends could be expected to take on all this (they are not close friends now although we are still in regular contact). However, there is no one who could be asked to take on so much. We have people who could advise DD1 but not take on a carer role and also deal with DD2s difficulties. I have no family and DHs parents are getting on in years and have never had much appreciation of the situation anyway. Sorry this is so long, but I am in desperate need of some guidance as to what to do and is there anywhere I could go for specialist help with this.