DH had to leave work a while ago, he was signed off by the doctor and has had continual sick notes ever since.
When we spoke to the benefits people they said we are entitled to incapacity benefit and income support and to claim for both.
We did this and the income support was sorted and back dated.
The incapacity benefit took alot longer and we kept having to get copies of sick notes etc because they lost them ... anyway, after we finally sorted it out and DH had the number of a certain woman who knew our case, he spoke to her daily about the claim.
We received a letter on Friday saying we are entitled and will receive another letter about payment.
DH logged on to his banking this morning and has gone over drawn and charged £95
So because of this we rang the lady and asked when exactly we would receive the payment we had been waiting for and relying on,
she said that you only get one or the other, incapacity or income support!
NO-ONE told us this ever!
We had been expecting this payment, relying on it for over 4 weeks and now we are told that we wont get it.
But why go through it all??
All this time she had been acting like it was our money and they just had to sort out a few things,
I don't understand.
I can't stop crying , everythings just totally f*cked up and we owe so many people money and I don't know what to do now.
DH can't go back to work, they wont let him.
I can't as I am heavily pregnant and have back problems.